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Yipee! A Page Rank 2!

2010-06-02T17:34:00.000-07:00

Yes, finally, this blog has gained a Page Rank 2! After months of going idle, I still can't believe that Phoebz Place is already PR2. Wow! What a surprise? Mr. Google's way of giving PR still amazes me. So now that this is PR2, I guess it's time to revive it.

So watch out for more entries to come!

Flexibility Exercises for Young Athletes

2009-12-22T19:44:00.000-08:00

Before you participate in any type of sports and other athletic activities, you must first perform a set of flexibility exercises. This will not only help you improve your posture and physical performance but will also reduce muscle soreness and decrease risk of lower back pain and other injuries. Take note that the main goal of this set of exercises is to take your joints through a full range of motion so you’ll have more freedom of movement.

Young athletes should perform each of the exercises carefully, it does not matter how fast or slow it takes to finish the set. But make sure to warm up before performing any of these exercises. Some examples of warm up activities are walking for a couple of minutes and slowly jogging in place. After doing these, you are now ready to perform these flexibility exercises for young athletes.

1. Seat Straddle Lotus. To perform this, first sit down and then slowly place the soles of your feet together. Drop your knees towards the floor, place your forearms on the inside of your knees, and then push your knees towards the ground. After which, from the hips, you lean forward and then hold for about five seconds. Repeat this exercise three to six times.

2. Seat Side Straddle. Just like in the first one, again sit down; but this time, with your legs spread, placing your hands on the same ankle or shin. And then slowly, bring your chin towards the knee while keeping your leg straight. Now, hold for about five seconds. Repeat it three to six times, and then do it again on your other leg.

3. Seat Stretch. This is done by sitting with your legs together, while your feet are flexed and your hands are on your ankles or shins. Then slowly, bring your chin towards your needs, and hold for five seconds. Perform this exercise three to six times.

4. Knees to Chest. Do this by lying on your back, with your knees bent. Then, grasp the tops of your knees and bring them out towards your armpits, rocking gently. Just hold for about five seconds, and then repeat the exercise three to five times.

5. Forward Lunges. In this exercise, you need to kneel on your left leg and then place your right let forward at a right angle. Afterwards, you lunge forward while keeping your back straight. Hold for about five seconds, and then repeat the exercise three to six times. Do this also on your other leg.

6. Side Lunges. To do this, stand with your legs apart, and then slowly bend your left knee while leaning towards your left side. See to it that your back is straight as well as your right leg when performing this. Then, hold for five seconds. Now, repeat the exercise three to six times. After which, perform it on your opposite leg.

7. Cross-Over. As the name implies, simply stand with your legs crossed. Make sure to keep your feet close together and your legs straight when doing this. Then, slowly reach for your toes. Hold for five seconds. Now, repeat the exercise three to six times.

8. Standing Quad Stretch. To perform this, you need to stand supported by holding onto a chair or wall. Then, slowly pull your foot behind to your buttocks. Hold for five seconds. After which, repeat three to six times and then do it to your opposite leg.

I Wonder

2009-10-08T02:52:00.000-07:00

Even if it's just a week since I gave birth, I couldn't help but open my laptop and do the usual stuff that I do - check emails, see my Facebook and Friendster accounts, be online in Yahoo Messenger and Skype 24/7, and of course, simply surf the Internet to search for friends and former classmates. I know it's not good for me to be back online this early, but believe me, I just couldn't help it - I breath the Internet and without it, I'd be dead in a minute. Just kidding.

But anyway, now that I'm back online, I wonder if there are people out there searching for me via the net. I know there are some, a few could be relatives from other places, one or two could be my ex, or perhaps a number could be my friends outside work or former colleagues and classmates. In Friendster, I can easily tell who's viewed me. But other than that, I have no clue. Good thing, there's MyLife, a site that allows people to know who are searching for them and find everyone they know. It's connected with popular sources like Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, and LinkedIn. So, if I want to know who's trying to look for me via the Net and find some long-lost friends, there's MyLife to the rescue.

Welcome Baby Gihan Raphael Paulo!

2009-09-28T19:24:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! It's been so long since I last updated this blog. I did take the bedrest seriously and control myself not to blog too much. Although the 2-month bedrest due to placenta previa felt like forever, it was all worth it now that I have already given birth to my baby via normal delivery. That's right! I was able to deliver normally since the placenta migrated prior to my due date. Unfortunately, baby did not reach full term; at 36 weeks and 1 day last September 25 at 2:50pm, out came Baby Gihan Raphael Paulo weighing only 5.06 lbs / 2.3 kilos. And although his lungs were already matured, he had to be in the incubator for 2 days because his heart rate was fluctuating. Plus, he also acquired the UTI (urinary tract infection) that I experienced during pregnancy, that's why he had to take antibiotics via injections for seven days. But according to his pedia, once he's done with this, he will be ok.

Anyway, without further ado, let me introduce to you my new bundle of joy - BABY GIHAN RAPHAEL PAULO!

Get Connected and Win

2009-08-24T03:53:00.000-07:00

When I was young, I never got the chance to spend a vacation with my parents. It would have been really fun if we were able to join at least a summer camp together. But then, past is past. And so now, I'm concentrating on my own family. I want to make sure that when Daddy is here, we are able to spend quality time together. The only problem is that I'm not really familiar about the fun family events that happen in our area. If only there's a way for me to know, like those in the US, what events are coming up for the family to enjoy, it would have been less of a worry for me.

Okay, now I might have aroused your curiosity as to how can anyone from US know what fun family events are coming up in the area. It's through ParentsConnect.com widget - a cool new way to know what's going on all over the US. If you have a blog, simply install the widget on your sidebar, and that's it - everyday you can get yourself updated with what's going to happen in your area without so much fuss. And what's even more exciting about this is that it can even make you win $1000. How? When your widget gets the most views, a thousand bucks come your way. Isn't it amazing? Parents Connect doesn't just get you connected but allows you to win too. So, join now!

Pregnancy Update: 31 Weeks

2009-08-23T02:19:00.000-07:00

I'm now in pregnancy week 31. If you'll ask how I am, well I'm doing fine. Although the bedrest is killing me softly, I still manage to survive day by day as long as my laptop is here to keep me occupied. I've been on bedrest for almost a month now, and believe me it's no fun at all. But what can I do, it's what my OB recommended since I had spotting a few weeks back. And with this placenta previa complication, it's really imperative that I follow her advice, or else.

So, what's with me and my baby on week 31? Well, the little one is doing great inside I guess. He still keeps doing his day and evening somersaults, and from time to time I could feel him bulge on one side and then on the other. I would even want to presume that he's having more fun while me here is having a really hard time coping with this bedrest until delivery.

Anyway, as for me, I don't eat a lot now, instead I drink more water to counter the UTI. I'm done with the medication since yesterday, and so I'm really hoping that on my next urinalysis, the UTI is already gone. With regards to my work, I'm coping as well with the work-from-home setup. Sometimes, I even feel like I'm just inside the office, chatting with my officemates regarding projects and other concerns. I'm really glad that I'm allowed to work-from-home or else I'll go crazy doing nothing in front of my laptop while on bedrest.

That's it for week 31. Due date is near and I'm keeping my fingers crossed that a miracle will happen - and that baby will pull the placenta away from my cervix before my scheduled ultrasound 3 weeks from now.

Web Hosting and Me

2009-08-13T19:00:00.001-07:00

I've been blogging for three years now, but only on a personal level, nothing really serious like niche blogging. Although I have friends who are already doing that and been encouraging me to do the same, I just can't find time to really focus on it since I find it hard to manage my time between work and looking after the kids and our new home. Maybe, just maybe, when I run out of job already, that's the time I'll take blogging into the next level - a niche blog with own domain name and webhosting.

As far as web hosting is concern, I've already found a site where I can check a list of web hosting service providers - it's Web Hosting Geeks. But mind you, they don't just provide a simple list at that. They rank them according to the features that each web host provides and they provide great web hosting reviews. So, if you are looking for webhosting like me, you'll find it very helpful in choosing which one best suits your needs.

Not only that, Web Hosting Geeks is also a very informative site as it provides articles about the basics of web hosting and more. It also includes a blog wherein you can find really interesting posts such as this: Six Essential Tips Towards E-commerce Success.

So, what else would you want to know about web hosting? Web Hosting Geeks has it all. And so, I'm really glad I found it.

On Ken Binay's Death, Placenta Previa, Bedrest, and Placenta Accreta

2009-08-12T20:11:00.000-07:00

After seeing the news about Mayor Jejomar Binay's daughter-in-laws death last Tuesday due to a pregnancy complication, all the more I got scared about my own condition. Ever since I was in the third month of this pregnancy, I was experiencing placenta previa. I even blogged about it here. And now that I'm already on my 7th month, I'm quite sure that the placenta is still there partially covering my cervix because of the spotting that I'm experiencing 'til now.

So, what really caused Ken Binay's death, yup that's the name of Mayor Binay's daughter-in-law? According to news, she died of hemorrhaging. She suffered from profused bleeding after giving birth to her 7-month baby girl via C-section. She had a really difficult pregnancy, on which prior to her death, she had a month of bedrest at the hospital.

Bedrest. Agh, that same word has been a part of my pregnancy as well since I've learned that I had placenta previa totalis. And after my last prenatal checkup, I was told by my OB to already file a leave from the office and have bedrest until I give birth. But then, I don't want to file a leave because that also means no salary for me for months. Good thing, I have a very considerate boss there who allowed me to work from home. So, beginning tomorrow, I'll be hitting two birds with one stone - work from home and bedrest at the same time.

Anyway, enough about me. Now, why did I mention about placenta accreta? It's because in Ken's case, that's what triggered her bleeding according to news. I became very curious about that term after watching TV Patrol, so I immediately searched more information about it. Here, let me share it to you:

What Is Placenta Accreta and How Will It Effect You?

Placenta AccretaMost women don’t really think about the placenta while they are pregnant and many don’t realize just how big a role it plays in the development of your baby. So for the same reason many of you probably wouldn’t have an idea of what happens when the placenta does not function as it should.

During a normal pregnancy the placenta attaches to the uterine wall, however there is a condition which may occur if the placenta attaches itself too deeply into the wall of the uterus. This condition is known as placenta accreta, placenta increta, or placenta percreta - and this usually depends on how severe the and how deep the placenta attaches itself. This itself is not a very common issue in pregnancies though, and usually only occurs 1 in every 2,500 pregnancies.

What are the differences between Accreta, Increta and Percreta?

The difference between the three is determined by how bad the attachment to the uterine wall is.

Placenta Accreta occurs when the placenta attaches too deep in the uterine wall but it does not penetrate the uterine muscle. This is the most common accounting for approximately 75% of all cases.

Placenta Increta occurs when the placenta attaches even deeper into the uterine wall and does penetrate into the uterine muscle. This accounts for approximately 15% of all cases.

Placenta Percreta occurs when the placenta penetrates through the entire uterine wall and attaches to another organ such as the bladder. This is the least common of the three conditions accounting for approximately 5% of all cases.

What Causes Placenta Accreta?

Although no one actually knows what causes it – it can be related to both placenta previa and previous cesarean deliveries.

Placenta accreta is present in 5% to 10% of women with placenta previa and the chances of having placenta accrete increases with each c-section – with multiple cesareans being present in over 60% of placenta accreta cases.

Are There Risks For Your Baby?

In most cases premature delivery and subsequent complications are the primary concerns for your baby with bleeding during the third trimester being an indication that there is a possibility that placenta accreta exists.

There are however risks which you may face if you have this complication. The main concern is hemorrhaging during manual attempts to detach the placenta. Severe hemorrhaging can be life threatening. Other concerns involve damage to the uterus or other organs during removal of the placenta. Hysterectomy is a common intervention, but as I am sure you know this results in the to conceive.

What is the Best Treatment For Placenta Accreta?

Unfortunately there is nothing which can be done to prevent it and there is little that can be done for treatment once placenta accreta has been diagnosed.

If you have been diagnosed with placenta accreta your healthcare provider will monitor your pregnancy with the intent of scheduling a delivery and using a surgery that may spare the uterus. You should discuss this option with your healthcare provider should you choose to have more children down the line.

Unfortunately, placenta accreta may be severe enough that a hysterectomy may be needed. Again, it is important to discuss surgical options with your healthcare provider.

Source: www.pregnancy-calendars.net

If placenta previa already scares me, well this placenta accreta scares me more. So I must admit that the news really affected me so much, and now I'm thinking what if...But erase, I don't want to entertain negative thoughts anymore because that won't do me and my baby any good. For now, I'll focus on my own case, take the bedrest really seriously, and see my OB as frequent as possible.

Affordable, High Quality, and Stylish $8 Eyeglasses from Zenni

2009-07-31T17:19:00.000-07:00

Zenni Optical on TV!!! Wow! That's great news! See for yourself.

I've seen it a while ago and really I'm glad that Zenni continuously provides affordable, high quality, and stylish $ 8 Rx eyeglasses. If I were to get one for my 5-year old daughter, I'll choose this:

That pink frame looks cute, right? It will look good on Yana, I'm sure. I'll simply place my order online and have the item shipped for more convenience. Another great advantage buying from Zenni. You can even read more about it here: High Five to Zenni Optical!

So if you are also thinking about getting affordable eyeglasses for your children, visit Zenni now!

82 Days and Still Counting

2009-07-31T17:08:00.000-07:00

According to my Babystrology.com widget on my other blog, The Baby in Between, it will be 82 days more before my due date. So, that means it will still be around 2 1/2 months more of waiting. I certainly hope that my baby will last that long inside me. Because with the bleeding episodes that I'm constantly experiencing, there's really a big possibility that I deliver this baby boy early.

Of course, any expectant mom would want to deliver a full-term baby. So, I really pray that my baby boy will reach even up to 37 weeks before I give birth to him. For now, it will be 82days more to go and I'm still counting.

Clinique Happy I Like

2009-07-30T03:15:00.000-07:00

I've always loved wearing perfume. However, when I got pregnant I stopped using one because the fragrant smell often makes me feel nauseous. But as soon as I get over with this, I'll buy a new bottle of perfume, at least for a change. I still have my Victoria Secret here, but then it would be better if I switch to something new which has a milder scent like the Clinique Happy.

My friend Glad used to have one. The first time I tried it was when she allowed me to use it. The moment I sprayed it on my wrist, I immediately fell in love with its chic, modern, and multi-layered floral scent. So, from that day on, I promised myself that I'll get one once I'm done with this pregnancy. I thought of buying it from an online perfume site, that way it'll be more convenient for me.

Pregnancy Update: 27 Weeks

2009-07-28T22:03:00.000-07:00

I'm now on my 27th week of pregnancy. And believe me, everything is getting more and more difficult for me. Unlike my previous pregnancies, this one is really high risked. I have another episode of bleeding tonight, maybe due to the placenta previa partialis complication that I still have.

I know, I should be at the hospital right now instead of writing this blog. But, the stubborn me tells me that I should observe the bleeding first if it really won't go away overnight, or if the mild contractions that I'm feeling now persist. It's just me and the nanny here, so it's really difficult on my part in case I'd be admitted without anyone to look after me.

So, what else about me and my 27 week old baby inside? Hmmm. Oh the little one really kicks a lot now! Sometimes I even let the kids see him do that, and they are both so amazed to see my tummy moves. Anyway, here's more about me and baby at 27 weeks pregnancy:

Week 27

How Big is the Baby at 27 Weeks Pregnant?

Your baby at 27 weeks now weighs slightly over 2 pounds by 27 weeks pregnant. Your baby's total length is close to 15 inches during pregnancy at 27 weeks! Your baby is now a perfectly formed albeit very tiny human being, but of course will continue growing as you continue your pregnancy week by week .

Your Baby's Growth and Development

Your baby's systems continue to mature during pregnancy week 27 and your little one even starts accumulating some weight in the upcoming weeks.

Up until between the 27th and 28th weeks of pregnancy your baby's eyelids are fused together. After this week or next they will open. The retina or the light sensitive portion of the eye typically starts maturing at about 27 weeks of pregnancy. The layers that form in the retina will allow your baby's eyes to receive light and transmit the information it is receiving to the brain to form images. This basic process is referred to as 'sight'. Imagine that, at 27 weeks pregnant your baby is a tiny, seeing human being!

Your Growth and Development

Your uterus continues to climb the height of your stomach during pregnancy at 27 weeks, now measuring almost 2.8 inches above your belly button. If you were to measure your uterus from the pubic symphysis at 27 weeks pregnant you would find that it is approximately 27 centimeters to the top of the uterus.

Changes in You

You may start to notice that the abundant energy you experienced toward the first part of the second trimester is fading somewhat as you approach the third trimester. Your growing uterus is placing increasing demands on your circulation and your body during pregnancy 27 weeks and beyond. Remember it takes a lot of energy to create life. Try to get some much needed extra rests in the form of a nap or two if you can during the day. Even a small catnap in the front seat of your car if you are at work may be helpful.

You may start feeling increased Braxton hicks contractions during pregnancy at 27 weeks or later as you gear up for the third trimester. Again for most women Braxton hicks are simply the pre contractions that prepare you for labor and delivery. They are usually nothing to worry about unless you have a history of pre-term labor.

Source: www.womenshealthcaretopics.com

Camo Mint Nap Mat for Hubby

2009-07-27T16:24:00.000-07:00

Hubby's friend, Kuya Jimmy, is here in the Philippines for a 2-week vacation. Tomorrow, we will meet somewhere in SM North so he can give me the MP3 player that hubby bought for me. I'm excited, of course, because I can already do away with the PSP which is way bigger to carry with me whenever I travel to and fro the office. At least with the MP3 player, I can easily slick it in my pocket.

Now, I'm thinking what to give hubby in return. I already asked him about this but he just told me not to bother anymore. But well, I'm a stubborn wife, so I'll get him something still. And you know what I'm thinking? I'm thinking about getting him this Camo Mint Nap Mat from Posy Lane. It looks nice, isn't it? Hubby can use it whenever he sleeps over at his friend's house there in South Korea. I just hope he'd like it.

So, okay, I'd better order one fast before hubby's friend goes back to SK. Hmmm. I'm also thinking about getting something for myself so I can save from shipping. I'm choosing between a purple towel wrap and a pink laundry bag. What should I choose?

Heartburn During Pregnancy

2009-07-15T12:14:00.000-07:00

Lately, I've been experiencing a very uncomfortable pregnancy symptom which is called heartburn. I'm sure moms out there had also experienced the same thing when they were pregnant. It really feels awful, especially when that sharp, burning sensation suddenly runs through the chest, as if I drink a super cold water the moment I get out of the bed. So uncomfortable really.

During my pregnancy with Baby Guian, I also experienced heartburn, but not as bad and as early as this one. Imagine, I'm only on my 2nd trimester but the burning sensation is really making me feel very uncomfortable a early as now. When this happened last time, I did not do anything since it wasn't that bad. But this time, I don't think I can afford to just let it pass because it's really taking the toll on me. Even when I'm at the office working, I can feel that burning sensation inside me, and it's really so distracting. I could hardly concentrate doing my work. So, I did a little research in order for me to know what to do about it. For expectant moms like me, let me share to you this info:

Many women will experience heartburn during their pregnancy. Even for women who have never experienced it before, heartburn may occur for the first time while they are pregnant. That burning sensation in the chest and throat, and sour, acidic taste in the mouth, may become an all too familiar sensation for some of them. Why?

Heartburn during pregnancy occurs for a number of reasons. Increased levels of hormones in your body while pregnant can soften the ligaments that normally keep the lower esophageal sphincter (LES) tightly closed. If the LES relaxes at inappropriate times, food and stomach acids can reflux back up into your esophagus and throat. Also more pressure is put on your stomach as your body changes and your baby grows. This, in turn, can force stomach contents through the LES and into your esophagus.

Though you may not be able to eliminate heartburn completely, you can take some steps to minimize your discomfort.

* Don't eat foods that are known heartburn triggers. These include chocolate, citrus fruits and juices, tomatoes and tomato-based products, mustard, vinegar, mint products, and spicy, highly seasoned, fried, and fatty foods. For a complete list of foods to avoid, check out this chart. For foods that have a low risk of causing heartburn, check out this chart.

* Avoid drinks containing caffeine (coffee, tea, cola) because these can relax the LES and allow acid to reflux back into the esophagus.

* Avoid alcohol. Alcohol relaxes the LES. Read the article on alcohol and heartburn for more information.

* Don't eat big meals. Eat several small meals throughout the day instead.

* Don't rush through your meals. Take your time eating, and chew thoroughly.

* Wait at least three hours after your last meal before going to bed.

* It's important to drink plenty of water during pregnancy (8-10 glasses daily) along with other fluids, but don't drink these only at mealtimes. Large quantities of fluids can distend your stomach, putting more pressure on the LES and forcing it to open inappropriately. Drink some of your fluids in between meals.

* Sleep with your head and shoulders propped up with a wedge pillow or elevate the head of your bed six to eight inches. This will allow gravity to work for you and it will help keep your stomach acids where they should be--in your stomach and not in your esophagus. For some tips on easing nighttime heartburn, read this article.

* Wear loose, comfortable clothing. You need to avoid any tightness around your waist and stomach.

* Bend at the knees instead of at the waist. Bending at the waist puts more pressure on your stomach.

* Sit upright in a comfortable chair rather than slouching.

* Gain a sensible amount of weight and stay within the guidelines your doctor suggests. Too much of a weight, and obesity, puts more pressure on your stomach, and can force stomach contents through the LES and into your esophagus.

* Don't smoke. While your doctor may urge you break the habit because you're pregnant, smoking can also increase your odds of experiencing heartburn. Read about smoking and heartburn to find out the reasons smoking increases heartburn.

* You should always check with your doctor before taking any over-the-counter remedies while pregnant, but there are a few choices you have that can help eliminate heartburn. Some heartburn relievers such as Tums, Maalox, Mylanta, Rolaids, or Gaviscon may prove helpful. Again, it's important that you check with your doctor before taking any of these remedies.

Source: heartburn.about.com

It's A Boy!

2009-07-07T16:03:00.000-07:00

Yes, it's a boy! I had my pelvic ultrasound done this afternoon and I couldn't believe when the sonologist told me that what I'm having is a baby boy. WOW! As in, it was amazing! I've been longing for a baby boy ever since I had two girls, so today I finally realized that dream. God really answers prayers. And I'm more than thankful that after a long wait, he's finally here - my long-awaited dream. Oh, I can't wait to see him!

I'm only on my 24th week of pregnancy, so it means I still have to wait for about 16 weeks before I can see how adorable my little boy is. Oh, I wonder how is eyes look, his nose, his lips, everything! I'm really excited, very excited. And I'm pretty sure the little girls will be so happy too because they also wanted to have a baby brother this time. Can't wait to go home and tell them the good news.

Just Like the Good Ol' Days

2009-06-28T19:06:00.000-07:00

Back when I was still in our hometown, I used to play billiards with some of my friends in bars. Although I was not so good at it, I managed to break the rack and sink some balls. Now, I'm starting to miss those days. With this pregnancy that I'm going through, all the more it's impossible for me to go out and play billiards with friends.

Good thing, I found this site which allows me to play multiplayer games,8c1.net.http://www.8c1.net online. Even at the comfort of my room, I can invite my friends to play billiards online with me. Or in case they're not available, I can always join the other players via the net. Oh, this is just like the good ol' days!

Leg Cramps During Pregnancy

2009-06-26T10:55:00.000-07:00

Oh, how I hate leg cramps during pregnancy! This isn't the first time that I experienced it, but I still couldn't bear the pain whenever I feel my leg muscles tightening. Usually, it occurs at the middle of the night. I didn't know if I made a wrong turn while sleeping last night, the next thing I knew I was already crying in pain. I already tried to stretch my calf muscle by flexing my toes back toward the shim, but that didn't help still. So, I called out Baby Guian's nanny to flex my toes for me.And there, I found relief.

Whew, I don't know until when I'll experience these leg cramps. So, I researched about it to learn more how to get relief when it strikes and to avoid experiencing it further.

Why am I having leg cramps during pregnancy?
No one really knows why women have more leg cramps when they're pregnant. It's possible that your leg muscles are tired from carrying around all of your extra weight. Or they may be aggravated by the pressure your expanding uterus puts on the blood vessels that return blood from your legs to your heart and the nerves that lead from your trunk to your legs.

Leg cramps may start to plague you during your second trimester and may get worse as your pregnancy progresses and your belly gets bigger. While these cramps can occur during the day, you'll probably notice them most at night.
How can I prevent these cramps?
Try these tips for keeping leg cramps at bay:

• Avoid standing or sitting with your legs crossed for long periods of time.

• Stretch your calf muscles regularly during the day and several times before you go to bed.

• Rotate your ankles and wiggle your toes when you sit, eat dinner, or watch TV.

• Take a walk every day, unless your midwife or doctor has advised you not to exercise.

• Avoid getting too tired. Lie down on your left side to improve circulation to and from your legs.

• Stay hydrated during the day by drinking water regularly.

• Try a warm bath before bed to relax your muscles.

• There's some evidence that taking a magnesium supplement in addition to a prenatal vitamin may help some women. Check with your provider before taking any kind of supplement during pregnancy.

You may have heard that having leg cramps is a sign that you need more calcium, and that calcium supplements will relieve the problem. Though it's certainly important to get enough calcium, there's no good evidence that taking extra calcium will help prevent leg cramps during pregnancy. In fact, in one well-designed study, pregnant women taking calcium got no more relief from leg cramps than those taking a placebo.
What's the best way to relieve a cramp when I get one?
If you do get a cramp, immediately stretch your calf muscles: Straighten your leg, heel first, and gently flex your toes back toward your shins. It might hurt at first, but it will ease the spasm and the pain will gradually go away.

You can try to relax the cramp by massaging the muscle or warming it with a hot water bottle. Walking around for a few minutes may help too.

With this information on hand, I know exactly what to do now when I experience leg cramps.

Thanks www.babycenter.com for this info!

Baby Guian Wants a Toddler Backpack

2009-06-11T19:54:00.000-07:00

Ever since my 5-year old daughter started going to school last Monday, my Baby Guian suddenly became very eager to have her own toddler backpack as well. She and the nanny are the ones who send and fetch Ate Yana to daycare school from Monday to Friday. So, whenever Baby Guian sees her Ate looking really cute from wearing her backpack, she keeps on saying that she wants one as well.

So to grant her wish, I decided to check some toddler backpack options. And here is what I liked so much so far:

Almost all of Baby Guian's stuffs, starting from clothes to shoes and accessories, are colored pink. So, I thought she'd also love this pink pony mint toddler backpack. I found it from Posy Lane, an online shop that offers a wide array of personalized items such as kids backpacks, ezy roller, laundry bags, and even personalized children's plates. It's really a great site, so why don't you check it out as well?

Pregnancy Update: Week 21

2009-06-10T09:03:00.000-07:00

When I arrived at the office this morning, I was still feeling a little better. But after 2 hours in front of my desk, I can already feel my lower abdomen aching. I don't know what's causing this discomfort; I felt worried because perhaps, it's the placenta previa totalis again. I haven't visited my OB-GYNE since the last time I had an ultrasound, I guess that's over a month ago. So, this lower abdominal pain really scared me.

For now, I just did a research about my pregnancy update. Since my due date is on October 22nd, I'm now entering week 21.

How Big is the Baby at 21 Weeks Pregnant?

By pregnancy week 21 your baby now weighs over 10 ounces and is a little larger than 7 inches long or about the length of a full banana by now! Your baby will continue to grow at a remarkable pace as you continue your pregnancy week by week.

Your Baby's Growth and Development

By pregnancy 21 weeks your baby's growth has now slowed somewhat though your baby is still growing and developing at a remarkable pace. At pregnancy week 21 your baby's organs and central nervous system are still developing and maturing. Your baby's skin continues to develop and mature as well.

Though not fully matured or developed, your baby's digestive system is also working minimally at pregnancy 21 weeks. The intestines are slowly starting to contract and relax during pregnancy at 21 weeks, and your baby is able to swallow and absorb fluids through the amniotic fluid at 21 weeks pregnant.

Though it seems unusual that your baby may swallow amniotic fluid, this actually helps mature the digestive system.

At some point in your pregnancy, you might actually start noticing that your baby has started hiccupping. Believe it or not, hiccupping in utero is actually quite common, and typically not a sign that your baby is in distress. Fetal hiccups typically begin sometime during the second trimester. You may notice hiccups as a small, repetitive and rhythmic movement that occurs for a few minutes at a time in your belly. Many women actually enjoy the sensation of their baby's hiccups because it reminds them that all is well with their newborn baby.

Changes in Mommy:

You may be noticing aches and pains in your leg during or after 21 weeks pregnant. Just as with varicose veins, discussed in previous weeks, support stockings can help alleviate leg heaviness and aches during pregnancy. Try putting your maternity support hose on first thing in the morning before you get out of bed. This will help alleviate unnecessary swelling and discomfort in your legs.

Also consider propping your feet up when sitting if you don't already do so. Another way to alleviate aches and pains is regular exercise and stretching. Consider a 15-minute stretch and walk during your lunch break or once in the morning and once during the afternoon. This will go a long way toward alleviating aches and pains.

Source: www.pregnancyhut.com
www.womenshealthcaretopics.com

Pink and Aqua Laundry Bags I Like

2009-06-08T20:44:00.001-07:00

I've been thinking what stuff to bring when I give birth this October. Aside from the usual baby clothes and things, I'm also considering the other important items that the nanny and I will use at the hospital. And since I'm expecting more laundries during the day I give birth, I'm planning to bring laundry bags.

Yes, it's a must that we bring these laundry bags along so we'll be able to organize the clothing that the baby and I will use at the hospital. But I don't want ordinary bags at that. I want something like these aqua and pink laundry bags. Aren't they cute? They're being offered at Posy Lane, together with these baby memory books and kids backpack. Whether you want to get one for personal use or as a gift, these items from Posy Lane will sure suit your budget.

Now, let me look at these laundry bags again. What do you think, should I go for the pink one or the aqua one? Feel free to share your comment.

Macbook's Busted

2009-06-07T20:24:00.000-07:00

Jeez, why now? One minute I was updating my Mac software, then another minute this message appeared:

Panic (system crashes) log Size: 2.51 KB Last Modified: 4/17/06 8:14 AM Location: /Library/Logs/panic.log Recent Contents: Fri Apr 14 20:52:55 2006 panic(cpu 0 caller 0x0034FC40): mbuf address out of range 0x21460000 Backtrace, Format - Frame : Return Address (4 potential args on stack) 0x25b3bbc4 : 0x128b5e (0x3bbeb8 0x25b3bbe8 0x131bbc 0x0) 0x25b3bc04 : 0x34fc40 (0x3db914 0x21460000 0x25b30010 0x37445300) 0x25b3bc24 : 0x34ffe7 (0x37445300 0x47b1630 0x0 0xde) 0x25b3bc44 : 0x22d2ff (0x37445300 0x1 0x1 0x601000a) 0x25b3be14 : 0x222007 (0x37445300 0x14 0x25b3bf14 0x526b8506) 0x25b3be54 : 0x223a8b (0x37445300 0x14 0x6 0x0) 0x25b3bf64 : 0x211109 (0x37445300 0x37445300 0x42cb5c 0x135798) 0x25b3bfa4 : 0x1f773d (0x46b9e04 0x37445300 0x3745c816 0x1) 0x25b3bfd4 : 0x197a21 (0x0 0x0 0x3fa0d48 0x134aec) Backtrace terminated-invalid frame pointer 0x0 Kernel version: Darwin Kernel Version 8.6.1: Tue Mar 7 16:55:45 PST 2006; root:xnu-792.9.22.obj~1/RELEASE_I386

Together with this image:

Image Source: Wikipedia

I already searched the net for some troubleshooting tips, but my Macbook doesn't want to cooperate, still the same message and image appeared. I'm really losing hope that I can fix this now. I guess, the only solution to this is to have it checked by a computer technician. Oh, if only Daddy G is here, I'm sure he knows how to fix this.

So, what for me to do? Nada, as in nothing. The more I try to resolve this issue by myself, the bigger the risks for it to get busted more. So okay, I leave you alone for now, Macbook!

Our Neighbor's Warning on Asbestos Exposure

2009-06-05T04:49:00.000-07:00

Weeks ago, our house had minor kitchen ceiling repairs due to the leak coming from the 2nd floor bathroom. Since the old ceiling was already damaged, the construction worker replaced it with another, which was according to him was made of asbestos combined with other materials.

I've heard the word asbestos a couple of times already, but never really knew that exposure to it could pose so much danger, until my neighbor saw me putting out of the house some of those asbestos ceiling remains. I was surprised when he told me that asbestos exposure could lead to lung cancer called mesothelioma. Often times, workers from construction and auto mechanics are the ones diagnosed with this. So, upon learning about this risk, Daddy and I decided to just replace the ceiling with something made from a better material.

I'm really glad that our neighbor warned my family and me as early as now. Because if not, any of us could be suffering from mesothelioma in the long run. But for those who are already diagnosed with this condition, there is still hope. And in order to receive compensation, consulting an experienced Mesothelioma Lawyer is the key. Manufacturers of this asbestos should be held liable for their exposure, thus they should pay.

Pregnancy Update: Week 20

2009-06-04T20:06:00.000-07:00

I am now in week 20 and so my bulging tummy is becoming more visible. I even started wearing maternity clothes because my jeans and shirts are so tight already. With my black leggings on and loose blouses and shirts, I could move comfortably without having to worry about abdominal pain later.

So, how about the little fella inside? "He's" doing good, I guess, because at night, he keeps on doing somersaults which leave me sleeping rather late. But as far as his condition inside is concerned, I don't have a clue since I haven't had another ultrasound yet. Anyway, I made a research a while ago to check on my baby's development at week 20.

Week 20: How Big is Baby?
By pregnancy week 20 your baby is now almost 9 ounces and is between 5 1/2 and 6 1/2 inches long! The pregnancy week by week changes occurring at this stage are truly remarkable.
Baby's Growth and Development:

By pregnancy 20 weeks your baby is now practicing breathing and swallowing on a regular basis. Your baby continues to grow and fill out, with the head becoming slightly more proportional to the rest of the body.
Your baby's skin is becoming more complex at the end of pregnancy week 20, forming different layers. The epidermis, or surface of your baby's skin now has four layers that contain ridges for fingertips. The layers that form in your baby's palms and feet will provide him with his own unique fingerprint later in life.

I'm really getting more excited about this pregnancy. I'm halfway there and so stay with me until this little fella comes out.

Source: www.babycenter.com
www.womenshealthcaretopics.com

Rustic Furniture for Our Cavite Home

2009-06-03T17:49:00.001-07:00

We moved in to our newly purchased home in Cavite just recently. So, what can you expect but a super-bare unit, waiting to be filled-in with really unique furniture and fixtures. Now, I'm thinking about getting rustic furniture for our bedroom. It brings a different kind of warmth inside the room, as if we're being drawn to nature closer. But I wonder whether Daddy G will like the idea or not, since our bedroom is not as big as this one.

Anyway, if he won’t like it, we’ll just look for other options. He mentioned to me before that he prefers wooden bed, but not the rustic type.

Meet Phoebz' Other-Half

2009-06-03T16:51:00.000-07:00

For those who don't know me personally and for those who are not constant visitors of my family blog, The Baby in Between, perhaps you're wondering who is Phoebz' other-half. You've read so many posts here about my pregnancies, yet no clue as to who is the "lucky" dad :D . LOL.

Okay, so without further ado, let me introduce to you my other-half, Daddy G.

Daddy G is currently working in South Korea as an OFW. He just came home last January to spend a really memorable 2-month vacation with me and Baby Guian. He's a really funny and sweet guy, and he loves kids. I even envied him when my little girl learned first to call him Daddy than calling me Mommy. And mind you, she can sleep oh-so-soundly on his chest, while when with me, she won't stay even for a minute. But I love seeing them so sweet together, they are the two most precious gems of my life.

Anyway, back to Daddy G, hmm what else can I say about him? He's a very responsible and supportive husband and dad, a really helpful son and sibling, and a hardworking man at that. Sometimes, he would even work on a Sunday just to earn more than the usual. On the negative side, well, he's a little childish sometimes - which is acceptable because we all feel like kids sometimes. But overall, my other-half is really one great guy, who loves us and we love in return so much.

So that's it! Now you already know more about me and my family. Journey with us both as we welcome our new baby which is really coming soon.

Curious About buzzTrendz and Twitter

2009-06-03T00:27:00.000-07:00

I told my husband the other night that I'm so into Twitter once again. In an instant, he was curious, and so I explained to me what it was. And just this noon, he found a new dneero conversation about buzzTrendz - bringing Twitter and YouTube together. Even if he wasn't that familiar with Twitter yet, he managed to answer the survey as honest as he could. Here's how the survey goes:

My Other Blogs

2009-06-02T07:47:00.000-07:00

Good morning guys! What's up? What have you been up to lately? Me here, I'm quite busy updating my two other blogs, The Baby in Between and Phoebe Online. Although I'm spending more time on my family blog which is the former, I still see to it that I get to update this one and the latter. I admit, it's not easy to maintain three blogs at the same time. But I'm coping.

Anyway, if you have time, feel free to visit my other blogs. For now, let me get back to work. Ciao!

Over With Renting

2009-06-01T04:04:00.000-07:00

Yes, it's true! Finally, I'm over with renting. Two months ago, we already moved in to the house and lot that my husband and I purchased. Although it's a little bit far from my work, I can manage the daily trip so long as my children are living conveniently in a house with bigger space compared to the unit that we have rented prior to moving in. Really, I’m thankful that we already have a place that we can call our own. But in case my friends need my advise about renting, I’ll always be open about it. I’d encourage them to try Real Property Management service so that it’ll be easier for them to find the unit for rent that suits their needs.

Constipation During Pregnancy

2009-05-30T23:12:00.000-07:00

Lately, I've been experiencing constipation. It's so uncomfortable, to the extend that sometimes I don't feel like eating anymore. I always feel as if my stomach is so full, and there's a need for me to move my bowel. But when I'm already there, nothing happens.

They say that constipation is very common during pregnancy. This is mainly caused by hormonal changes brought by pregnancy and influences the whole digestive system. Symptoms often include the following:

More than four days between each bowel movement.
Feces are hard, which are difficult to pass.
A feeling that not all the feces are being passed.

Aaarrgghhh, I really want constipation relief as soon as possible! If only I'm not pregnant, I would have taken one of those tea that I used to drink to help me pass my poops. But for now all I can do is to eat enough fibre, drink more water, and take exercise. I just hope these would help sooner.

Summertime is Back

2009-05-27T20:54:00.000-07:00

Yep, summertime is back. And so we thought that it's over since the first week of May was rainy due to the two typhoons that hit our country. Now, it's hello sunshine once again. Although some people hated this summer heat in the Philippines, for me it's way better than the rainy days. It takes me 8 rides a day to and fro work, so this type of weather suits me well. And no doubt, if I’d be in Arizona, I’ll be able to manage well in spite of the heat. I heard there are new home developments in Arizona. If you're thinking about living in Arizona like hubby and I do, why not contact Scottsdale Arizona realtors now?

Hey, I Felt Him Move!

2009-05-27T19:10:00.000-07:00

Yes, the little one is making those mini kicks again. I just felt him move a while ago. And it brought a smile to my face. As early as 19 weeks, I can already feel those little movements, and I can hardly wait to feel bigger ones as my pregnancy progresses.

Twenty-one weeks more and I'm off to see this little guy - (yeah, still hoping here that he's a little guy this time). Can't wait to see how he looks and touch his little hands and feet. Hmmm. I wonder if his foot is as cute as this one.

Image from: downtownbeatons.blogspot.com

Green Web Hosting for Phoebz Place

2009-05-27T18:13:00.000-07:00

I've already secured a web hosting service for my domain name phoebeonline.com. Now, I'm thinking about getting another domain name and choosing a web hosting service provider for this blog, Phoebz Place. I've started this personal blog almost 3 years ago, created a couple of posts, and earned a little out of it. This year, I'm planning to give it a makeover, starting of course with a new domain name and web hosting.

With the domain name, I've already decided to get one from where I also acquired phoebeonline.com. But for web hosting, I'm still unsure what provider to choose. I'm thinking about going green this time - something which is more eco-friendly, a green web hosting perhaps. I want to contribute in my own way in saving the earth. So since a green host uses eco-friendly sources such as recycled wastes and plant trees to power its datacenter, it would be the best option for me.

To begin my search, I visited Web Hosting Geeks. And guess what I found? Really helpful green web hosting reviews, on which providers are also ranked according to their features and bonus features. A great site about web hosting, indeed! Finding the best green web hosting provider for Phoebz Place has been a breeze for a not-so-techie blogger like me.

Pregnancy Update: Week 18

2009-05-26T16:17:00.000-07:00

I am now in week 18 of my pregnancy (almost 5 months at that). So far, so good. So good in the sense that I can manage to travel 8 short and long rides a day, to and from work. However, there are times that I find myself wishing that I'm just at home working and looking after the kids at the same time. In times like these, I simply console myself by saying this pregnancy will soon be over and that everything will be back to normal for me.

So, how am I and the baby doing in week 18? We're good, yeah! Although I'm not sure if I'm already placenta previa totalis-free. I haven't visited my OB-GYNE since my prenatal checkup last April and haven't had another ultrasound yet, so I have no clue. But still, I'm hoping that the placenta already migrated and that the baby shifted position from breech to head first. Anyway, on June 1, I'm planning to visit a new OB-GYNE near our vicinity. Only then will I know how my pregnancy condition is.

For now, I just update myself with what to look forward in pregnancy week 18 by researching on the Internet. So far, here is what I found out:

The Mom:

The hormones in pregnancy can cause changes in the appearance of your skin and hair. You may find that you have uneven patches of color or a butterfly shaped one called "the mask of pregnancy". These changes are more common in dark-skinned women. Your capillaries under your skin on your face can increase, causing you to look flushed. This is sometimes referred to as the "glow" that pregnant women are thought to have about them. You can use your foundation to cover both of these.
Your hair may appear thicker, it may gain a little curl, or it may start thinning. You will find that whatever your hair type, it usually becomes worse, i.e. dry hair becomes dryer.
You can now feel your uterus just below your navel.The average woman has gained close to 12 pounds by now.
SYMPTOMS YOU MAY EXPERIENCE

Breast Changes, tenderness, fullness, darkening of the areola
Frequent Urination
Constipation
Indigestion or heartburn
Occasional headaches
Stretch Marks (cocoa butter can help with these)
Itching
The Baby:

This week your baby is about 5.6 inches long and by the end of the week will weigh about 5 ounces! She is really growing! You are also growing as well, Mom! You can probably feel your uterus just under your navel. You have probably gained about 10 to 12 pounds.

Source: http://www.amazingpregnancy.com/weekbyweek/week18.html
Image Source: www.babycorner.com

Scrubs - What is it?

2009-05-24T04:36:00.000-07:00

When I gave birth to Baby Guian last 2007, the nurse who assisted me was very kind and friendly. She was also very patient in answering my questions with regards to postpartum concerns. I knew it was part of her job as a nurse. But after I read these inspiring nurses’ stories from Scrubs, a nursing clinical site, I realized that the nursing profession is far more than just caring, assisting, and answering patients’ questions all throughout their stay in the hospital.

Scrubs is a site dedicated to nurses all over the globe. It aims to inspire nurses and non-nurses alike through their articles, which are written by nurses themselves.

Recently, Scrubs launched this nursing poll with the question, “What is your favorite fictional portrayal of a nurse?” I participated and answered Carol Hathaway of ER. She’s really very effective in that role, and so I must say she’s my best choice. Well, no doubt, she has the highest vote as of today with 31%.

Aside from the nursing poll, Scrubs also has this Tip Jar page. It’s like a Q&A page, which is very helpful not only to nurses but also to non-nurses like myself. I’ve read through some questions and picked one that really caught my interest. It’s about How to Deal with a Patient Who Has Postpartum Depression. I’m currently pregnant, so the information I got from that tip would be really be of help. Thanks Scrubs!

Scrubs is really a great site to read. And now more than ever, I admire the nurses more, and so I’m looking forward to meeting the nurse who will assist me on my delivery this coming October.

Placenta Previa Totalis

2009-05-18T20:07:00.000-07:00

Last April, I underwent an ultrasound. I made a post about it in my family blog, The Baby in Between. The result showed that I was experiencing a serious pregnancy complication called Placenta Previa Totalis. Some of you may be familiar with this condition. But for those who are not, you can hop on to my Placenta Previa post to learn more about it.

At first, I was so scared. But after reading various forums where moms, who also experienced the same complication, shared their PP stories, I felt a little relieved. Most of them were able to give birth normally because their placenta migrated after a couple of weeks or months, totally clearing the cervix to give way for the baby. So after reading, I'm more than hopeful that my placenta will also migrate since my uterus will still grow bigger as weeks pass.

I'm now on my 18th week of my pregnancy. Ten weeks more and I'm off to another ultrasound. Keeping my fingers crossed that my placenta already moved out of the baby's way. And I'm praying hard as well that me and my baby will continue to be safe all throughout this pregnancy.

Preggy Again!!!

2009-04-14T17:47:00.000-07:00

Whew, it's been a month since I last made an update on this blog. But anyway, I'm here again, making this quick post to update you guys of what's happening to Phoebz. Well, aside from the fact that I'm still a full-time working mom, now I'm excited to announce that I have another baby on the way.

Yes, I'm preggy again! I'm now at 12 weeks, almost over with my first trimester. However, I'm still feeling the same symptoms like on the 1st trimester - vommitting, nausea, morning sickness, moodiness, etc. I thought, once I entered my 2nd trimester, my pregnancy will be a little bit more fun. But, I was wrong.

Anyway, in spite of these really uncomfortable pregnancy symptoms, I'm so glad that my husband is more supportive now than when I was conceiving Baby Guian. If you will look back at my posts here way back 2007, I had a really depressing pregnancy with her because her dad was somewhat "confused" during that time. But now, he's really changed, and hopefully, he'll continue to be the supportive and loving husband that he is.

So that's it for now. Journey with me as I continue to update you on this pregnancy.

In Search No More for Personal Loans and Business Loans Source

2009-03-17T01:18:00.000-07:00

When I was in college, I knew very little about personal loans, much more about business loans and business credit. Although my course was Business Administration, Major in Management, my mind wasn't really into starting my own business. It was more about being in a managerial position, in a reputable firm.

But now that I've already achieved what I wanted, though only in the supervisory level at that, I want to try something new - like having my own business. But since I don’t have huge savings yet for a starting capital, I tried to look around for a reliable source where I can apply for personal loans or business loans. And guess what I found? It’s EZUnsecured.com! Their experts have been around in the business for years, so they know exactly how they would help us, would-be small business owners, in obtaining the capital that we need.

I’ve even read one feedback saying: "You can Trust EZUnsecured.com - They know what they are doing - The people there are very experienced and they take their work very seriously". So, nothing to worry about now! I guess I’ve already found the exact solution to my problem. The next step now is to apply.

No Way This Gonna Die

2009-03-15T23:55:00.000-07:00

You might be thinking that I've totally abandoned this blog because I already have a family blog which I constantly update. No, it's not exactly that way and there's no way this gonna die. I love this blog, therefore I am keeping it, and now I'm reviving it.

So, for those who haven't heard from me for a couple of months, Phoebz is back and Phoebz' Place is still alive and kicking. I'm still a full-time working employee in the same old company, a freelance writer on the side, and a trying-to-be-the-best mom when at home. And guess what's new? Well, another baby is on the way. Hopefully, it's a real Baby Guian boy this time! I'm on my 2nd month of pregnancy, and mind you, I'm not loving it. Morning sickness sucks and I hardly eat a thing. It's as if everything doesn't seem to please my taste buds. Arrrgghh!

Anyway, hope everything is okay with you whatever part of the globe you are. I know, you do miss this blog and do look forward to my updates. So, here I am. Back from nowhere and again let me say that no way this blog's gonna die. As in, no way!

Got A Wish? Tell Santa About It!

2008-12-09T23:31:00.000-08:00

Got a wish this Christmas? Why don't you tell Santa about it? Perhaps you're thinking that it's silly to still believe in Santa these days. Hey, why don’t you loosen up a bit and have a little fun by sitting on Santa's lap? Guess what? I did sit on Santa's lap a while ago. I visited his site and spent a while telling him about my wish. I also listened to their conversation about this new technology in digital photography called CEIVA. I was amazed, so I uploaded one of my photos to see how it will look on that digital photo frame. Here’s what I uploaded:

I love this photo so much. This was taken 4 days ago when we spent a weekend there in Davao. I chose to upload this one because I want to share the beauty of the beach at the background. Don't you wish you're there too? You know what, we had so much fun snorkeling there. And believe me, it was a heavenly experience. So yeah, I highly recommend it when you visit Davao.

Anyway, going back to CEIVA, maybe you’re curious as to what it is? Well, CEIVA is a new and exciting way to share your photos with your family and friends. Even if they are miles away, you can share them your captured moments when you spend the holidays out of the country or those precious times with your kids. I'm so fond of taking pictures myself, and so I got really excited when I learned about this new technology.

Now, if you haven't purchased gifts for your loved ones this Christmas, why not consider this digital photo frame from CEIVA? I'm sure they'll love it. And here’s a good news: CEIVA is running a sweepstakes which will run for 29 days. Everyday, one lucky winner will be given $500, so why not join now? It's just too bad I can’t participate since I’m not from US. But if you are, well grab that chance to win that $500. I wish you luck!!!

Win $100 and More at PSDRockstar.Com

2008-12-06T16:16:00.000-08:00

It's December once again, and so everyone's excited, except myself, to go home for the holidays. Yup, it's so sad that I won't be going home this Christmas. Actually, it was my decision not to go because in January, me and my daughter, together with her dad, will be going home anyway. So we'll just celebrate here in the big city, and prepare a little Noche Buena.

Speaking of Noche Buena, I haven't thought of what foods to prepare yet. But before I think about the food, perhaps what I should prepare first is the budget for that. Whew, I've been paying a lot of bills lately, so I might as well join this contest from PSDRockstar to win that $100 prize. That will make a great budget for our Christmas eve dinner. But the contest will end by December 27, so might as well reserve it for the New Year's Eve celebration.

How to join the contest? Here are the simple rules:

5 points - Stumble the contest post.
5 points - Digg the contest post.
15 points - Subscribe to RSS Feeds
20 points - Blog about the contest.

So easy right? Now, for the prizes:

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This contest is so exciting. Wish I could win the 3rd prize, that's all I'm after anyway. "wink"

If you want to join, feel free to visit PSDRockstar.com. Good luck to us!

New Eyeglasses for Me

2008-11-26T23:02:00.000-08:00

Whenever my husband sees me on webcam with my eyeglasses on, he would joke that I look like a nerd. Yeah right! How could I disagree if I know myself that indeed I look nerdy on these old frames of mine? So, he suggested that I should get a new pair, a fashionable one, since I’ll be getting my 13th month pay soon. And he recommended this site called Zenni Optical – the popular online eyeglasses shop.

What makes Zenni Optical popular? Well, they have these $ 8 Complete Rx Eyeglasses, which are not only affordable but also of high quality. And since Christmas is just around the corner, I'm going to check out the Holiday Glass Frames from Zenni Optical. Actually, I've already seen one from their selection, which I kinda like a little. Here it is:

Isn't it cute? Do you think I'll still look nerdy on that?

A Contest from Nita's Random Thoughts

2008-11-25T17:00:00.000-08:00

It's been awhile since I last joined a blogging contest. Although I'm not super-lucky on this, I find it fun to be a part of other bloggers' contests. So now that I have a free time, I guess I'd better not let this contest from Nita's Random Thoughts pass.

It's Nita's and her hubby's 6th year wedding anniversary on the 30th of November, so she's hosting this blogging contest to celebrate. How to join? Here are the simple rules:

1. Subscribe to her feed via email (Required). Be sure to verify your email address to be eligible for the contest. - 1 Entry.
2. Blog about the contest and include the prizes and sponsors (Required) - 5 Entries
3. Fave her blog to add to your Technorati favorites.
4. Digg, Stumble, Technorati Fave, Delicious and Reddit her contest. - 1 entry each.
5. Leave a comment to validate your entry with the email address you used for the feed subscription, Digg, Stumble, Delicious Technorati ID, and your blog URL of the contest post.
6. Write a post in your blog about your winning to ensure the money or prizes is really paid out. Cash prizes will be sent via PayPal so be sure you have a PayPal account.

Now for the prizes:

Cash and Prizes:

1st Prize:
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Let's Talk Silver

2008-11-19T17:10:00.000-08:00

In my teenage days, I fancied wearing gold jewelleries. I remember one time, when I saw my bestfriend wearing a gold ring, earrings, and a bracelet, I asked myself how come my mom didn't buy me stuff like those. And so, when I went home that day, I immediately asked my mom why. Her answer was I was too young to have a gold jewellery then, Sterling Silver Jewellery should be better for me.

Those days, I hardly appreciated silver pieces of jewellery. But when I grew older, I came to realize that they looked better on me than the gold ones. And so, from now on, I prefer having Sterling Silver Bracelets just like the ones being offered at Keysilver.

Keysilver is an online trading company that offers a vast selection of Sterling Silver Jewelleries such as Silver Bangles, Pendants, Chains, and Bracelets. They have been around since 2006, and they are known to provide products with high silver content and carry the .925 (92.5%) stamp. No doubt, customers who love silver order only from them; imagine even those not from UK can take advantage of their great offers because of their free International delivery.

If you'll ask me, personally, I'd like to have that Silver and Rose Quartz Necklace from the Trendy Silver Necklaces category. The rose quartz stones look fantastic and the silver shaped charms and pearls as well. I'm sure, I'd look good with that on, especially when I wear it on our Christmas party to go with my black and white smart casual attire.

So, if you are also into silver jewelleries, why don't you check out Keysilver? The site is very easy to navigate, so you'll not find it hard to search for their wide range of products. Whether you want a silver bracelet, bangles, or pendant, I'm sure you'll find one that will best suit your taste.

Comment and Win $50

2008-08-14T08:07:00.000-07:00

Yup, that is right! By simply giving DaBlogger a comment, you get a chance to win $50. Why is he giving away this cash prize? Well, he is feeling generous after giving his site a new theme. Hey, why don't you check the site out? I pretty like the new theme myself. Simple yet organized, so overall it looked easy on the eyes.

More about the contest, well, just leave a comment so you'll basically get one point for that. But if you want to increase your chances of winning, subscribe to his feeds via email (2pts.) and link to the DaBlogger (10pts.).

Very simple, right? Now, hop on to DaBlogger to see what's more in store aside from $50!

Brillante Weblog Award

2008-08-08T23:09:00.000-07:00

Jhelea gave me this award, and yup I'm more than glad to receive this since this is the 1st time that a friend whom I met from blogging gave me one. So for this, I want to thank you sis! I appreciate it so much.

The recipients of the Brillante Weblog are welcomed to put the Logo on their personal blogs and have the honor of passing this award to seven other bloggers.Here are the rules for passing on the award:

l. Put the logo on your blog

2. Add a link to the person who awarded you.

3. Nominate at least seven other blogs

4. Add links to those blogs on your blog

Leave a message for your nominee on their blog.

Now, let me pass this award to my blogging friends Jirl, Lyn, Nays, Wendz, Mina, Maidz, and Cardz.

Don't Text While Walking, Biking, Cooking, Etc.

2008-07-31T00:37:00.000-07:00

I was browsing the net a while ago when I chanced upon this Yahoo tech news: OMG, text at your own risk. The headline caught my interest and so I read on. According to the news, texting can be dangerous. When? When walking, skating, cooking, biking, boating, and I would add, when babysitting. Yup, certainly texting while doing any of these can be utterly dangerous. I remembered one time, while walking I was busy texting to reply a message sent by my friend. Then, I didn't notice this guy walking towards me, so I almost bump into him if he didn't try to avoid me. He just looked at me with piercing eyes when I glanced back at him. So then, I realized that I really should not text while walking.

I'm sure, some of you have also experienced the same thing. Or perhaps, you were doing other things like cooking or driving and you were texting because you thought you were maximing your time in doing two things at the same time. Yup, you were making use of the time, but you were definitely putting yourself at risk. According to one doctor's statement on the news, "You're focusing on one task for a split second, then focusing on another one, and with something moving 40 miles an hour like a car, it just takes a couple of seconds to be hit." So, better not text when walking, driving, biking, etc.

Ten Things 'Bout Me

2008-07-26T00:21:00.000-07:00

I was tagged by my blogging friend, Jhelea. This is about 10 random things about myself. Actually, I've just posted a tag from Jirl in my other blog entitled 7 Facts About Me. So, I'm kindda having a hard time thinking as to what to put on this, since I've already listed 7 out of the ten. Anyway, I decided to just write a new list. But before I do, let me state to you the rules of this tag:

Once you have been tagged, you have to write a blog with 10 weird, random things, facts, habits, or goals about yourself. At the end, choose 10 people to be tagged, listing their names and why you chose them. Don't forget to leave them a comment ("You're it") and ask them to read your blog. You can't tag the person who tagged you.

Now, here's my list:

1. I drink slimming tea just to "you know". Because if I don't, it will take days for me to move my "you know". hahaha. Lols!
2. I can type 56 words per minute...and I can say 56x1,000,000,000 words per minute especially when I'm angry. :D
3. I love eating chicken: fried chicken, roasted chicken, chicken curry, chicken bbq, chicken liver, chicken feet, chicken intestine - in short "isaw", but definitely not live chicken.
4. I have a passport already, but never been used, and never been touched - meaning still so virgin..hahaha..and will expire soon..
5. I love playing volleyball, and promise I'll do everything just to save the ball even if it means plunging down the ground.
6. I love surprises, but not the one we got last June 19th.
7. I wanted to be a lawyer, but I ended up a writer. Oh well...
8. I get pregnant easily...as in...I just don't know why I always end up having a baby girl.
9. I enjoy washing the dishes, do the laundry, polish the floor, and clean the bathroom. Just don't let me cook and fold the clothes.
10. I have a sweet tooth. Sweets...You name it, I'll eat it...Weee..

Okay, I'm done! Now, you're it: Lyn, Mina, Nays, Cardz, Ate Pres, Twinx, Tala, Mayan, Charm, and Rye.

Time for Surveys

2008-07-22T18:12:00.001-07:00

Sexy Voice+Sexy Body = Definitely Not Me

2008-07-18T00:44:00.000-07:00

According to one article that I read today in Yahoo news, sexy people sound better. Now, that made me really think, so I continued to read the whole article. It said that those people who are deemed to have sexy and attractive voices tend to have sexier body once seen in person. Hmmm. So does that mean my voice does not sound attractive just because I'm not sexy? Oh come on! But hey, I don't really give a damn, whether my voice is sexy or not, or if it is my body that is sexy or not. Though I gained weight over three pregnancies, I'm more than proud to be a mom and I consider myself sexy in my own way. Now, it's all up to my hubby! *wink*

More About Glenn Beck

2008-07-17T01:41:00.000-07:00

I don't know if you guys heard about Glenn Beck already? But as far as I know, he's one great guy who can put humor in life's complexities. Whether it is about politics or about life in general, his storytelling and stand up act will sure make you laugh and help you forget about your worries even for a while. Now, if you haven't seen or listened to any of his acts, why not visit his website or check out his blog? His site is a combination of entertainment and enlightenment, so believe me, you’ll never get bored reading the articles included in this site. Why not check out the Family and Relationship page? Basically, that’s the category that catches my interest most.

But hey, if you want to see more of Glenn Beck, catch his One Night Only show in Dallas on July 17th. This is a part of his current summer political tour and will be available in selected theaters nationwide. So get a ticket now! Have a great time watching!

My Current Fave Song

2008-07-15T23:00:00.000-07:00

While I was at the dorm's "internet station" yesterday, I heard this song that really got my attention. Actually, it wasn't the first time that I heard it. I already loved its melody and lyrics the first time and so upon hearing it again last night, I told myself, "I have to know the title and lyrics of that song!" So, I asked the guy who played that song over windows media player, and he told me that the title of the song was Forget About Me by A Little Bit. I was happy, but not much because I wasn't able to download it. Good thing, my friend Dex has one, and he immediately transferred it to my cellphone. Thanks, Dex!

Have a Break..Take a Minute for These Surveys!

2008-07-07T06:19:00.001-07:00

Weekend To-Do List

2008-07-05T08:00:00.001-07:00

Beginning today until Monday, we don't have work. Aaarrgghh I just can imagine how boring my weekend will be! So, I decided to list down some of the things that I can do over the weekend to keep me busy.

1. Organize my things inside my room. Yup I should do this because the past days, I put my things everywhere. End result: my bed is a complete mess!

2. Do the laundry. Nice move Bhem! Instead of paying someone to do it for me, I'd better make use of my time to wash my dirty clothes and let them dry.

3. Watch movies using my laptop...Yup..Yup..Yup..This will keep me occupied so I won't feel so homesick.

4. Go to the mall. Hmmm..Sunday won't be a bad day to go to the mall and spend a few bucks. My friend Talie is here, so maybe we can meet at the mall and go window shopping.

5. Blog...Blog..and Blog...That is right! This will consume most of my time since I need to update my readers about the latest things that happened to me.

So there! My to-do list over the weekend...

A Rather New Info

2008-07-02T00:47:00.000-07:00

While surfing the net a while ago, I chanced to see this site about cord blood banking services. It really caught my interest because it never occurred to me that a newborn's umbilical cord blood can be preserved and used to treat many diseases. This was really new to me so I read on.

According to this cord blood banking site, the umbilical cord blood’s stem cells can be used against over 70 diseases and have been actually used for about 8,000 transplants around the world. Wow! Imagine that. Why didn’t I learn about this before? I could have preserved my baby’s umbilical cord blood for such medical purpose. Now that I have learned about this through this site, I could consider the idea next time.

Is this cord blood bank information new to you as well? Why not check this site to learn more? Now, let me continue reading further about this topic. I’m really curious about this.

Yipee! I Won! I Won!

2008-07-01T19:20:00.000-07:00

Remember my A Chance to Win post last June 7? Indeed, a great chance 'coz I'm one lucky winner! Yipee! That's right! I'm winner #2 of Everyday Finance' 250$ Giveaway Contest, which means an additional $25 for my paypal account.

See, no sweat at all! Thanks a lot to you Everyday Finance. Looking forward for more blog entries from you, and hopefully another contest on your 500th blog post. Weeeee!!!

Hey, let me share to you the proof of my winnings! This is the first time I won a blogging contest, so hope you guys won't mind me being a bit proud about it.

Be Mesmerized by Criss Angel

2008-06-23T02:55:00.000-07:00

Ever since I was a kid, I’ve always been fascinated with magic tricks. I remember years back, I was so entertained when a friend of ours showed us some of these tricks during children’s parties. He was good, but nothing compares to seeing professional and modern magical masters like CRISS ANGEL.

I’ve also seen other great magicians do unbelievable tricks like David Blaine and Harry Houdini. Yes they were great, but if you will see Criss Angel’s illusions and performances, you can say that he has indeed took magic into a higher level.

Now, where to see him? Why not catch him at the Luxor Hotel in Las Vegas? This new Cirque Du Soleil performance featuring Criss Angel is called CRISS ANGEL Believe. A lot of people are looking forward to this show because they really want to see him perform his never-before seen magical illusions.

If you also want to be mystified and mesmerized with Criss Angel’s performance yet you’re having a hard time getting the ticket, then join the Text Message contest now to win 2 tickets to CRISS ANGEL Believe. How to join? Text 'Believe' to 22122.

So, hurry! Grab this chance, win, and be entertained by this great illusionist. Believe me, after you’ve seen him perform, you might think that indeed he has powers. Yet, he does not have any; he's just there to left you spellbound by his performances.

A post with no title...

2008-06-21T19:04:00.000-07:00

Yeah, I couldn't think of any title right now. I have lots of things in mind, yet when I start typing, I couldn't seem to let the words out. So, all I have is this for now:

To all MBS/USAP-Legazpi peeps, I miss you all guys!

Another Dneero Survey

2008-06-21T16:11:00.001-07:00

A Tribute to Madeline

2008-06-18T02:02:00.000-07:00

Over the years, I've seen colleagues come and go in this company. Some were expected, while a few came as a surprise. Like now, I never expected this day to be the last day here at work of one of the closest people I've known.

I know, some of you may be wondering who I'm talking about. And perhaps, you, yourself will be surprised knowing that she's indeed leaving the company. But let me tell you this, she may be leaving the company after almost 4 years of being here, but the memories she shared with me, with us, will always be treasured.

Okay, so how do I want to remember this colleague and friend? To begin with the not-so-important, well, she's often the co-organizer of the Office Paluwagan. Ever since the First Proposed Paluwagan in 2006, she was already active in recruiting other PMs or what we called as Paluwagan Members. Now, what's the privilege that the co-organizer enjoys? Well, she often got the PM1, PM2, or PM3 slot, meaning she's the first, second, or third to claim the accumulated fund. So now that she's not with us here anymore, I'll sure remember her if ever there will be a Paluwagan again. Thus, beginning today, the position for Paluwagan's co-organizer is officially open. LoLs.

Now, let me go to the more serious and important side. Do you know that every time I have a problem about family, lovelife, money, and even with my own personality, it's this colleague and friend that I often first shared it to? Okay, don't cry now Bhem. I really feel sad that she has to go, really I do. I was so silent while we were eating at the pantry because I was trying to hide this sad feeling of being away to yet another closest part of my life. Darn, stop crying now Bhem. (pause)

Whenever I'm down and whenever I feel like crying, she's always there to listen, to emphatize, and to say soothing words to calm me down. I remember those days when we were still seatmates, she never gets tired of listening to my day-to-day whining about my problems. And now even if we're in separate cubicles, nothing stopped me from going to her work station and tell her about my frustrating and not-so-frustrating stories.

I guess, a lot of you have witnessed our conversations at the pantry, eating breakfast and late lunch together, while talking about the problems I or she had recently. This is one thing I'm sure I'm going to miss about her. Though I'll be able to communicate with her through text or ym when she happens to be online to share to her my happy and sad moments, still it won't be the same without her here.

There's still a lot of stories about me and her that I can share to everyone here. Beginning from the seatmate days up to the separate-cubicle days, we sure did have a lot of conversations and memories that are worth remembering from time to time.

But above all these days, how can I forget the time when she was one of the few people who stick with me during that most difficult phase of my life - when I got pregnant with Baby Gaby. Yes, she stood by me. And yes, she was there to support me, to give me encouraging words to move on even if I was abandoned during that difficult time. It was a long and stressful journey, but I manage to survive because I had few true friends who helped me through and she's definitely one of them.

It really feels sad to see her go, but then again, reality check, people come and go for a reason. So, as she leaves today, allow me to tell everyone here, that I feel lucky and proud to be one of her friends. I also want her to know that I'll always treasure her friendship and thank her for all the things that she has done for me. But as she goes, I don't want to say goodbye to her, perhaps it would be better to say, "'til we meet again!"

"Good luck to you, Madeline (a.k.a. Jirl..Lols..) I'll miss you! Hey, don't be absent on Gaby's 1st birthday on November and christening on January '09. Make sure to be there!"

(Jirl's Birthday Celebration last May 2006)

On Exploring New Things

2008-06-13T22:03:00.000-07:00

My husband and I were teasing each other in voice chat last night. He said that when he comes home in January, he's going to give Baby Gaby a baby brother. Silly him! I just laughed and told him that it will only happen if and only if he will be the one to conceive. But of course, I was only joking on that.

Anyway, he said that when we're together, he'll do everything to make me happy. Hmmm. I teased him, and asked, as in everything? He said yes, and he asked me if I'll be open to the idea of him using vigrx plus or extenze. I was a little puzzled because I don't have a slight idea as to what those words mean. And so he shared to me this site dedicated to male readers. It's actually a great site for men who want to explore and try new things like using vigrx plus and extenze. Vigrx plus is regarded as the penis enhancement pills' gold standard while extenze is a known maximum strength male enhancement pill. To know which product is more effective to others, reviews like extenze review and enzyte review are included in the site.

Now, going back to what my husband told me, hmmmm I haven't really given the idea much thought. All I can say is that, whatever he wants to try, I'll just support him all the way.

Just Another Survey

2008-06-13T18:53:00.000-07:00

Lesson Learned

2008-06-13T02:11:00.001-07:00

It's now 5:10pm here yet it seems our salary won't be credited to our accounts anytime soon. SALARY WHERE ARE YOU??? I'm so pissed off because I'm really flat broke. I have mentioned before that I transferred to a new place, right? And so, that's where most of my money went, on the side were the not-so-important-at-the-moment things that me and my mom-in-law bought 2 Sundays ago, school stuff that I bought for my sister-in-law which exceeded my budget, and the celebration I prepared for Baby Gaby on her 7th month birthday. Waaaa!!! I'm doomed, as in I've never felt so broke in my entire career. Weee!!!

I really hate it that I've already consumed all the contingency plans that I made. Plan A - got the extra money that I lend to my officemate, Plan B - used my credit card for the school stuff that exceeded my budget, and Plan C - borrowed money from my all-time lender ever merciful colleague and friend Olops. I thought, I'll manage to survive until today, and even assuring my mother-in-law before I left the house this morning that I will be home a little late because I'll buy groceries (yes, my refrigerator is empty, as in NADA! WHAMS LAOG!). But look what happened now, NO SALARY UP TO THIS MOMENT, as in 0 balance. And when I try to borrow money, some people don't want to believe me that I'm broke. Huhuhu!!! Poor me.

I was thinking, just because my husband is an OFW, does it mean that I have money always? This is one wrong belief. But I couldn't blame those who are thinking that way. That's why I always tell my husband to learn how to say no sometimes when some people ask him a favor or try to borrow money. I also tell him that since some people think that we always have money, when times that we need cash badly, they will never go out of their way to lend us with the amount that we need. And so, the end result - POOR US!

This is the first time that I went through so much stress because of lack of money. I know, some people will think that why in the world would I allow myself to worry if I can easily withdraw the funds that I have in our passbook account. Okay let me explain, you see I decided to open a passbook account instead of an atm account so I won't be tempted to withdraw from time to time. What's the logic here? If I keep on withdrawing the money and promise to deposit it back, well, I don't trust myself 100% that I'll be able to return it. So, what I do is that, I borrow money from those who have extra amount so I'll be compelled to pay it once I have money already.

Aaarrggghhh!!! I really hate this! I don't want to go to my last resort - and that is to withdraw! But at the back of my mind, I can hear a voice saying - WITHDRAW! WITHDRAW! WITHDRAW!!!

BUT NO! I WON'T! I'll stay firm. I can wait! Promise. I can formulate a Plan D tonight. HOPEFULLY! Now, this is really one big LESSON LEARNED!!!

Update: According to hearsay, salary might be credited to our account by Monday, June 16th. Waaaahhh!!!

Father's Day is Just Around the Corner

2008-06-12T23:47:00.000-07:00

Just to remind everyone reading this blog, Father's Day is on Sunday, June 15th. As of now, I don't have any letter or gift yet for Papa Ghie. As compared to last year, as early as two weeks before Father's day, I've already sent him a card and a letter to thank him for giving me Baby Gaby. Now, I don't have anything in mind. Perhaps, on the day itself, I can come up with a nice gift idea for him.

To all the fathers out there, Advance Happy Father's Day! And to all the children, hope you'll remember your dad on this special day. (Hmmm...You'd better say that to yourself Phoebe. Huh?)

Time for More Surveys

2008-06-11T15:23:00.000-07:00

Confusing Time

2008-06-10T23:42:00.000-07:00

Almost two weeks ago, I saw a photo of my husband together with a girl seated at the center and another guy beside her. The photo would have not disturbed me if the girl seated beside him was not the girl that he used to court when I was pregnant. Although there was another guy on the picture, still I couldn't help but feel a twinge in my heart, because they were seated so close to each other, not to mention it was the girl's birthday celebration. I did not remember him telling me that he attended that girl's birthday party, that's why it really hurt me BIG TIME!

I don't want to think that my husband is cheating on me, but then again, hiding that photo and the information that he came to that girl's party leaves me wondering up to this moment why he didn't tell me about it. Even if he assured me that the girl on the photo is just a friend now, I’m still not at peace considering the fact that the girl is closer to him, unlike me and his baby who are just contented talking to him online and seeing him on webcam. If only I could ask a relationship expert on how to understand men, I’m sure it won’t be too hard for me to keep that trust, which is actually very important for our long distance relationship.

Talking to a relationship expert is a good step for me to reassess things between me and my husband. We have been apart for almost two years now, and believe me being in a long distance relationship is like going for a roller coaster ride. And in confusing times like this, the founder of WomanSavers.com could be of big help. She’s a relationship expert and a dating expert in one. So, if you also have questions about online dating and relationship, feel free to visit her site because I just did.

Survey Time

2008-06-07T19:35:00.001-07:00

A Chance to Win

2008-06-07T01:58:00.000-07:00

While blog hopping this afternoon, this blogging contest from Everyday Finance grabbed my attention. In celebration to its 250th post, Everyday Finance is giving away a total of $250. Congratulations to you, Everyday Finance!!!(clapping)

I'm done subscribing and signing up for email subscription, so now here I am spreading the word about your $250 Contest Giveaway through this post. Well, the cash will sure be of big help so thanks for giving me a chance to win by simply following these simple procedures:

1) Sign up in Everyday Finance news reader - 1 entry
2) Sign up for Everyday Finance email subscription - 1 entry
3) Do a post about the contest on my blog by linking to the contest post - 5 entries
4) Leave a comment about the contest on any blog, contest site, message board or other outlet

If you're also interested to join, click here.

Problem Solved

2008-06-01T23:21:00.000-07:00

My baby and I just moved in to our new place 2 days ago and I really felt glad that we already did. Why? Because the new place is way too bigger and more comfortable for me and my baby. But then, I would admit that the one month deposit and one month advance that I paid to my landlord left me broke, as in fat broke. Now, I’m thinking as to where I could get the cash that I need until the next payday arrives.

For some people, cash loans online are the best solutions for problems like the one I have right now. I don’t know if it’s also the right one for me so I did a little research about it. I found this great online payday loan site and read very useful information on faxless payday loans. Their site includes How It Works and FAQs pages so it was easier for me to understand how to obtain a payday loan.

If you’re having a problem regarding securing immediate cash, why don’t you check this site? It does give me the information that I need, and I’m sure when I decide to apply for one, signing up will be as easy as counting 1-2-3.

On Customer Service

2008-05-15T19:55:00.000-07:00

One Word

2008-05-12T23:32:00.000-07:00

I grabbed this from If You Dare Blog by Jhong. not our businessman Jhong here in the office :D but Jhong from Makati, Philippines, also a pinay blogger. So, here it goes:

Answer each with only one word:

1. Where is your cell phone? inside
2. Significant other? away
3. Your hair? long
4.Your mother? gone
5. Your father? dunno
6. Your favorite thing? laptop
7. Your dream last night? scary
8. Your favorite drink? soju
9. Your dream/goal? house
10. The room you’re in? office
11. Your hobby? writing
12. Your fear? spider
13. Where do you want to be in 6 years? Canada!!!
14. Where were you last night? home
15. What you’re not? superhero
16. Muffins? corn
17. One of your wish list items? W960i
18. Where you grew up? Legazpi
19. The last thing you did? edit
20. What are you wearing? longsleeve
21. Your TV? Sony
22. Your pets? nothing
23. Your computer? Macbook
24. Your life? not-so-exciting
25. Your mood? sad :(
26. Missing someone? Nhoy
27. Your car? soon
28. Something you’re not wearing? thong...hahaha..
29. Favorite store? Kamiseta :D
30. Your summer? hot
31. Like someone? hmmmm...
32. Your favorite color? Pink
33. When is the last time you laughed? today
34. Last time you cried? yesterday
35. Who will blog this? READERS!!!

If you read it...You are Tagged! Come on, have a break!

Advance Happy Mothers' Day

2008-05-09T00:09:00.000-07:00

Just to remind everyone here: Mothers' Day is on the 11th of May. If you don't have a gift or anything special for your mom yet, well you still have time to do some shopping or baking or other stuff which you think will make your mom feel extra special.

I'm grateful for those who still have moms, and allow me to say that you're all way luckier than I am. At the age of 13, I lost my mom, and believe me, my life was never the same when she left. Losing her left me struggling for years, but then later on, I realized that there's no use dwelling on the past. Now, I have finally moved on, and trying to be the best mom that I could be.

So, for all of you out there, love your mom and spend time with her. Remember, you only have one mom in this world. And for moms like me, cheers to us all for we are blessed to be called as Mother, Mommy, or Mama by our sons and daughters.

Now, let me give this award to my fellow great mommies here: Chie, Jirl, Lyn, Mina, Wends, Wats, Peach, Yona, Twinx, Tala, and Ate Razh. Got this from Liza's blog, also a great mom.

HAPPY MOTHERS' DAY!!!

On Tax Rebates

2008-05-08T21:05:00.001-07:00

Want to Earn Money Online?

2008-05-05T19:44:00.000-07:00

Do you know that you can get paid to blog, drive, play, search, sell, shop, or write? If you don't, well it's time to take advantage of the Internet to earn money by simply doing any of these. Believe me, you can earn money online as easy as that!

Let this site help you learn the ways to earn through the Internet. So, check it out!

An Interesting Find

2008-05-02T21:53:00.000-07:00

Whenever I want to take a break, I go blog hopping. I enjoy doing this because I get updated with what's happening to my fellow bloggers and get to see new and interesting sites like the one I found this morning - GetPaidToPost(SM).

So, what is this site? Well, GetPaidToPost(SM) is an online resource of mass posting services which allow advertiser/webmaster to promote his/her business, service, product, or simply a message online.

If you are an advertiser/webmaster, you might ask, why the need to take advantage of these services? The answer is simple: to expand your niche on the Internet. How to do this? Through posts which you can ask from posters such as a buzz post, positive post, neutral post, opinion post, or even a copy and paste post about your business or service. Now, the choice is all up to you.

GetPaidToPost(SM) is really an interesting find. I'm glad I found this site. It'll sure be of big help since I'm also thinking of having my own business online.

Worry No More

2008-05-01T17:37:00.000-07:00

I woke up this morning feeling a little restless. I don't know why, maybe because of some things that are bothering me now. I tried to get them out of my mind but no luck. Even when I was on my way to the office, my mind seemed to travel as well, to the future - to what it has enstored for me and for my baby.

I know, it's not good for me to be worrying about the future too much. For years now, I have already proven to myself and to everyone that I am one strong person who can stand every difficult test that comes my way. But you see, no matter how strong I am, there are still moments of weakness, on which during these times I needed friends to talk to the most.

However, my friends are also busy minding their own lives and hardly find time to talk, much more to go out and spend a little time together. I could not blame them though, so the least that I can do is to get myself busy to keep my worries away. Plus, what's the use of my Internet connection at home if I don't take advantage of it. I can always meet new friends or even chat with old friends by simply joining online communities like 3gb.

3GB Community is a site which allows online users like me to meet new and old friends, join groups, chat with other members, and share blogs on topics of all sorts. I found this site very interactive and user-friendly. Imagine chatting, uploading photo albums, and hearing last mp3 hits in a single community, so no need to go to one site for chatting alone, or to another just to upload pictures. And since this is online, I can connect with friends from other places. I always love to meet new people from other countries, so joining this site is really fun.

It really feels good to set aside worries about the future by keeping myself occupied with other things like meeting other people. Now, with 3gb Community, even with my friends away, I can always get connected.

Life's Not All About Money

2008-04-29T08:00:00.000-07:00

I've learned something this morning which leaves me thinking up to this very moment. I know, I'm not supposed to be worrying about the "future" as early as now. But, I couldn't help it.

I want a complete family, I'm sure about that. However, there are "some people" who seem to be getting in the way so I won't be able to achieve this. What are "their" reason? Well, it's all about the MONEY! MONEY! and MORE MONEY! And honestly, I'm not too happy about it. I don't know why "some people" are so selfish to the extend that they deprive others from being together and from being happy. They think that if "we" are already together as a family, money will not anymore come their way. Why, is life just all about money? What about family? Health? Character? Aren't those factors more important?

I don't understand why in our society some people look at money as the most important thing or factor in order to be happy and contented. They say, "Money is Power". Yes, indeed, it is! But do you think it's right to put money on top of everything, even on top of family and character?

I really feel sad how money can transform a person's character from being humble and happy even with just simple things to discontented and selfish. How I wish "these people" will realize as early as now that there are more important things than money.

Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” - Hebrews 13:5

Contentment is not the fulfillment of what you want, but the realization of how much you already have.

Pour Gagner L'Argent, Maintenant !

2008-04-27T22:20:00.000-07:00

Whew, for the first time, I'll be making this French post. I've always loved to learn French. And now that I'm given a chance, let me share this to you.

Une des choses que je souhaite réaliser cette année est d'avoir la propre maison et le sort de ma famille. Wooow ! Comme si ! Je sais, ceci est dit plus facile que fait. Mais bien, je peux toujours prendre une mesure à la fois pour réaliser ceci, droit ? Ainsi, hier, j'ai pris ma première mesure : moi et mon collègue, ont mangé Raziel, ainsi que son mari et d'autres parents, ont vérifié hors de cette subdivision dans une ville voisine les sorts vides la vente. L'endroit n'était pas trop accessible, mais avec une voiture ou une moto, je pense, ma famille peux contrôler.

Maintenant, pour l'étape 2 : vérifiez les ressources possibles pour acheter le sort. Où pourrais-je commencer ? Notre épargne n'est pas assez encore, ainsi nous devons avoir d'autres options. Prêts ? Hmmmm, a pu être. Mais l'obtention des prêts n'est pas de nos jours aussi facile que comptant 1-2-3. Comment je souhaite je peux trouver une manière de gagner l'argent ou de devenir riche en un rien de temps. Ou peut-être, obtenez argent facile sur le net.

Tout en pensant comment obtenir l'argent gratuit, j'ai trouvé cet emplacement qui permet à des utilisateurs d'Internet de gagner autour $200 à $500 avec son méthode d'amasseur d'argent. Ceci a attrapé mon intérêt, est-ce qu'ainsi j'ai lu sur et me suis renseigné sur les différentes étapes que l'utilisateur d'Internet doit intervenir pour atteindre un revenu au moins de $200 par jour veulent savoir plus ? Examinez-le dehors pour assurer vous-même.

A Tribute to A Great Colleague...and Friend

2008-04-26T16:05:00.000-07:00

Today is his Silver Birthday. So I create this post solely as a tribute to him - my great colleague and friend.

I've known him way back in 1999, when I joined our school paper, The Cassette. He was a shy boy, (Lols..boy? weee..) so I never got the chance to know him better then. But now, he's one of the few persons whom I considered as my best buddies. Through the years of working and having great friendship with him, I get to know some of the interesting things that he likes and even those which he doesn't like too much. My list could go on and on, but I just summed them up and listed here 5 things to know about this great colleague and friend of mine - Mr. Dexter Baldon. (a round of applause pls...weeee)

1. Dex loves to travel. Whether here in Bicol or out of town, Dex loves to explore many interesting and exciting places like the one he recently visited which is CWC. Want to know where he has travelled so far? Click here.

2. Dex is a wannabe photographer. Even with his "not-so-latest" model of Kodak digicam, Dex can capture really great photos, on which during first glance, you might think that a professional photographer has taken them. From simple flowers up to picturesque views of beaches and hills, he can transform them into exciting pieces of artwork...(Ooowwwss!) Here, check some of his masterpieces.

3. Dex is a frustrated architect. Well, that's according to him. I never thought that this friend of mine has great talent in sketching/drawing, until I saw this post on his blog. I was really surprised when I saw this "masterpiece' that he has created. All this time, I thought he was only into writing, photography, and a little bit of well, uhem, singing. Lols. But after seeing all his Sketchup 3D models, I was convinced that he could have been really a great architect.

4. Dex is a born singer. I'm not deceiving you guys, believe me, he is. If you were around during our 2007 Christmas Party, I'm sure you'll agree. But for those who were not, well, you can look forward to his another great singing performance this coming December. Right Dex? Wink.

5. Dex is a good cook. Wanna bet? Why don't you try tasting Carbonara ala Dex? Once you taste it, I'm sure you'll crave for more. Hahaha. Believe me because I did.

These are just some of the interesting things that I can share to you about Dex. Although I've just known him better way back in 2005, when I first applied as a copywriter, I can say that Dex is one of the few people that should really be treasured not only as a colleague but also as a friend. I've seen him happy, sad, excited, nervous, frustrated, silly, and even weird, but one thing that I can always remember about him is that - whether it's a good time or bad time, he will always be there. (Take note: He was there together with our other friends, Talie and Owen, when I was about to give birth of Baby Gaby)

So, as you celebrate your silver birthday Dex, allow me to say thank you for being such a great colleague and friend. I wish you more birthdays and success in life (not to mention savings...savings...lols) I'll always be here for you when you need me, always remember that okay? Now, enjoy your day!

Happy Birthday Glitter Graphics

56 Words Per Minute?

2008-04-24T18:06:00.000-07:00

When I get back to my desk after a teleconference with my boss, I noticed that almost everyone in our cubicle was busy typing. I thought, wow, is this for real? Often times, in the afternoon especially when it's near 5pm, I can hardly hear loud keyboard typing sound because everyone seems to be exhausted and is getting ready to go home, including myself. So, this afternoon was rather different, only to find out that they were typing loud because they were trying this Speedtest which was shared by Peach.

If you want to know how fast you type, well, basically this speed test can give you a clue as to how many words or characters you can type per minute. Although this is not really 100% accurate, for copywriters like me, this is a starter in terms of assessing ones typing speed.

So, okay, I tried the test, once...twice...thrice...weeee...I couldn't go as high as 70 words per minute. First try was 54 words per min. Hmmm...I wasn't satisfied. So I tried again, but perhaps since I was a little tired already from the first one, I got only 50 words per minute. :( I was frustrated so I said, I'll try again. But this time, with a little cheating thing...hahaha..(I was memorizing the words so I won't be looking at the monitor anymore..Yeah right, cheater!) But you see, it didn't help at all because I got the second word wrong in an instant. So, I restarted and concentrated instead on the last try. I got 56 words per minute.

56 words? Hmmmm..What do you think? Is it good enough considering that I've been doing this typing stuff for years now? Well, I'd admit, until now, I still don't know the correct positioning of my fingers for typing. And I'm sure there are lots out there who are in the same boat as mine. Although I am able to use my ten fingers, still this doesn't make me type real fast as compared to Peach's 94 words per minute typing speed.

How about you? Want to have an idea as to how fast you can type? Try this for yourself. Simply click on the image below and get started. Ciao!

56 words

FINALLY!!!

2008-04-15T11:00:00.000-07:00

At last, Phoebz Place is FINALLY RENOVATED! With my new template - the 3-column DENIM, I'm now officially opening my place back to business, I mean blogging...Lolz. I don't know if you will like its new look, but I would definitely welcome feedbacks/comments/criticisms from you guys.

So, that's it! I know you're all very eager to see my new posts here. I know, I know, I neglected this place for a long time and maybe you were all thinking that I was going to abandon it. Nope, definitely not. This place has been my haven since I started a whole new life with Baby Guian. So, I will never ever dare think of leaving this place.

Again, welcome to the "newly-renovated" Phoebz Place. I hope you'll enjoy your visit here. char-char...Lolz!

Know Me More: Answers to 63 Questions

2008-03-11T22:06:00.000-07:00

Okay, here's another meme from one of my good friends Nays. Since I got to find a little time for this, let me answer this one fast (hmmm..is that possible?) Whooaa, 63 questions for this post!!! Are you kidding me?

Well, timer starts now...

1. Song that always makes you sad? >> Take Me Out of the Dark by Gary V
2. Last thing you bought? >> siopao from the Siopao Factory…(yummy!)
3. Last person you argued with? >> Gaby's dad...
4. Do you put Butter before putting the jelly on? >> jelly? what's that? Lolz. nope, I never combine them.
5. One of your stuffed animals' names as a kid? >> I don't have any...
6. Did you ever own at one time a Nysnc Cd? >> Nsync? Can't remember them and their songs either.
7. Favorite day of the week? >> Saturday
8. Favorite Sundae topping? >> chocolate syrup
9. Did you take Piano lessons? >> yes. but never learned 'coz my fingers were so short. I couldn't reach the keys.
10. Most frequent song played? >> Go on Girl by Neyo…
11. T.V. show you secretly enjoy? >> Hmmm...as of now, all I can think of is that "supposedly-forbidden-channel" in mot-mot..right Talie? wehehehe..
12. Would you rather play basketball or hockey? >> basketball
13. Date someone older or younger? >>well, age doesn't matter for me, as long as the date's not boring
14. One place you would wish to travel right now? >> Boracay
15. Do you use umbrellas? >> yup..always..
16. Do you know all the words to the Canadian national anthem? >> never heard that..
17. Favorite Cheese? >> Cheese whiz? weeehehehe..
18. Disturbed or My Chemical Romance? >> Neither of the two.
19. Do you prefer Blondes or Brunettes? >> blondes
20. Best job you ever had? >> hmmm..i'm thinking of a diff. kind of job now..:D..LOLZ!
21. Did you go to your high school prom? >> yeah, twice.
22. Perfect time to wake up? >> 6:30 am for me
23. Perfect time to go to bed? >> 10pm but I always sleep way past my bedtime
24. Do you use your queen right away in chess? >> nope…but I always end up the loser because I didn't use it wisely
25. Ever been in a car accident? >> no and hope I'll never be
26. Closer to mom or dad...or neither? >> never to both..but I miss my mom definitely
27. What age is this exciting life over for you? >> don't think about it that much. i just savor every day that comes
28. What decade during the 20th century would you have chosen to be a teenager? >> same with Nays, this decade
29. Favorite shoes you have EVER owned? >> my first Girbaud sneakers…
30. Do you have an article of clothing you have had since you were in high school? >> hmmm, can't remember any
31. Were you in track and field? >> yes, when I was in high school, I used to join the 100m dash relay during Intramurals
32. Were you ever in a school talent show? >> yup yup..roleplaying/acting category..weee..
33. Have you ever written in a library book? >> never, coz I seldom go to the lib
34. Allergic to? >> food? well, egg before..
35. Favorite fruit? >>grapes
36. Have you watched sex and the city? >> yup. but can't recall a single episode
37. Baseball hat or toque? >> what's a toque? sorry, anybody pls lend me a dictionary here..Lolz.
38. Do you shampoo first in the shower or soap? >> shampoo
39. Wet the toothbrush or brush dry with the toothpaste? >> wet the toothbrush
40. Pen or pencil? >> pen
41. Have you ever gambled at a casino? >> yup..played Black Jack and loved it
42. Have you thrown up on a plane? >> nope, but knew one who did..peace :D
43. Have you thrown up in a car? >> almost. i was too drunk..I applied the "it's-all-in-the-mind theory"
44. Have you thrown up at work? >> no, never
45. Do you scream on roller coasters? >>YEEESSS!!
46. Who was your first prom date? >>i forgot, sorry
47. Who was your first roommate? >> my sis..i miss her :(
48. What alcoholic beverage did you drink when you got drunk for the first time? >> Colt 45
49. What was your first job? >> a service crew (cashier)
50. What was your first car? >> hope I had one..hopefully this year..still saving..
51. When did you go to your first funeral? >> my great grandma
52. How old were you when you first traveled away from your hometown? >> hmmm, 15 i guess
53. Who was your first grade teacher? >> Mrs. Nunez..see, I still have a sharp memory..weee
54. Where did you go on your first airplane ride? >> Manila, and a connecting flight to Cebu!!!
55. When you snuck out of your house for the first time, who was it with? >> with friends
56. Who was your first Best Friend and are you still friends with them? Elisa Esico, we're just plain friends now
57. Where did you live the first time you moved out of your parent's house? >> don't remind me pls..i considered that place a part of a bad nightmare
58. Who is the first person you call when you have a bad day? >> no one in particular, who ever is near me or available to talk to
59. Who's wedding were you in the first time you were a bridesmaid or a groomsmen? >> my aunt's wedding way back when I was a teenager
60. What is the first thing you do in the morning? >>look at my little girl if she's already awake
61. What was the first concert you attended? >>hmm can't recall it..but a memorable concert that I attended was the Freestyle concert last 1999
62. First tattoo or piercing? >>ear piercing when I was a baby..i'm afraid of sharp objects yah know
63. First celebrity crush? >>I can't remember one. But I did have a crush with Orlando Bloom (Legolas of Lord of the Rings) before

Whew, I'm done...I never thought this could take so much time. Anyway, let me tag Jirl, Twinkle, Precy, KR, and Wendz...

And the list goes on and on...

2008-03-01T21:41:00.000-08:00

I'm in for a little breather, so I visited some of my colleagues' blogs. I came across Mayan's blog and saw her "yet-another-tagged" post. Seeing my name there, well, I have to apologize that I was not able to tag others soon enough. Anyway, it's better late than never, right? So, here's to continue this meme.

Cut and paste the following starting here.

I have randomly selected 5 of you below to be tagged and I hope that you will similarly publish this post in your blog. You will have to tag 5 other bloggers and just keep adding on to the list. (Do not replace, just keep on adding! Yes we hope it will be a long list!)It’s real easy! Tag others and see your Technorati Authority increase exponentially!

The benefits of Viral Linking:- One of the fastest ways to see your technorati authority explode!- Increase your Google PageRank fast- Attract large volume of new traffic to your site- Build your community- Make new friends!

The Strategist Notebook Link Addiction Ardour of the Heart When Life Becomes a Book The Malaysian Life Yogatta.comWhat goes under the sun Roshidan’s Cyber Station Sasha says Arts of Physics And the legend lives My View, My Life A Simple Life Juliana RW The Callalily Space Petra Summer in Blue Confessions of an Army Wife Bless’ Sanctuary Happy Life http://bless519.bravejournal.com/ La Place de Cherie Chez Francine Le bric a brac de Cherie Little Peanut, Pea in a Pod, The Creative In Me Me and Mine Pinay Mommy Expressions from the Heart TeacherJulie, Sweetbites by Bang Daily Dose of Nonsensical Thoughts, Phoebz Place...Add your blog here

Okay, I'm done. So, let me tag some of my blogging friends..See if your name's here: Naysan, Jirl, Dex, Mina, and Maidz.

Me in the Online World

2008-02-20T01:16:00.000-08:00

Looking back at Dex's posts a while ago, I happened to see this one which was written last January 17. I have read this before, but I completely forgot continuing the meme because I was too occupied with work stuff.

But anyway, now that I found the time, guess it's time to let this meme live on.

How long have you been blogging?

If I remember it right, I started blogging last 2005. It was on my friendster blog. Actually, I've heard the word blog even before 2005, but I was never aware back then what a blog is. So, when I've learned that a blog is just like a diary or journal, it immediately caught my attention, then the rest was history.

So, to count the years I've been blogging, guess it's almost 3 years now.

What inspired you to start a blog and who are your mentors?

Way back in 2005, nothing really inspired me to start blogging and I have no mentor either. When I made my first post, it was just some sort of an emotional release. I was feeling restless during that time, and after writing it down, I felt somewhat relieved. So, since then, blogging became my own way of relieving stress and expressing some thoughts and feelings which I found difficult sharing to anyone in person.

But as of now, there are lots of things that inspire me to blog. One of which is my Baby Gaby. Ever since I found out that she was inside me, I was so enthusiastic to broadcast it to the world. So, if you will see my posts here way back in 2007, you will notice that most of it pertains to baby and pregnancy. But now, I made a separate family blog for us - Baby Gab, her dad, and me. It's entitled "The Baby in Between".

Are you trying to make money online, or just doing it for fun?

Yup, I do try to blog for money, but that doesn't mean that I don't do it for fun anymore. In every post that I make, I always see to it that I inject my personal thoughts on it, thus I enjoy writing it because I can still relate to the topics that I discuss.

But you see, before, it never really occurred to me that I can earn through this hobby or past time. So, when my colleauges shared to me how rewarding blogging can be financially, I told myself, "why not give it a try". Considering the additional expenses that I have to make now for my baby, blogging for money is certainly a big help for a mom like me.

Tell me three things you love about being online.

Well, to start with, of course I love being online because it enables me to communicate with Gaby's dad more often. Email and chat services make it possible and easy for me to show Gaby's dad of her developments (from infant to toddler) and of course, to relay to him about her needs.

Another thing is that, being online allows me to communicate or interact with other people from difference places. (Ssshhh. I'm not into chatting anymore...I'm talking about my friends and schoolmates way back who are now abroad..wink!)

And lastly, I love being online because it provides me a lot of information. From pregnancy topics to babies upto relationships, travel, and technology, the Internet has it all.

Tell me three things you struggle within the online world.

For one, I struggle learning everything that can be learned online (web design, downloading softwares, etc. etc.) I'm used to attending real classes so I really find it hard to learn these stuff online.

Next, I find it difficult to update all the blogs that I created. You see, even this blog is sometimes neglected when work is really hectic.

And third, it is a struggle for me to balance my time between blogging and chatting to my baby's dad (who happens to be in Korea now). I certainly hope I'll be able to manage this really sooner.

So, folks that's the last one. Time to tag other people now so this continues...Good luck Jirl, Nays, Mina, and Twinkle.

Celeb Mom and Baby

2008-02-16T01:00:00.000-08:00

I was blog hopping this afternoon when I stumbled on this post entitled Celebrity Chiik by Yhen. It was like a Fake Magazine Cover which features her as the cover girl. (In your dreams, Yhen..wehehe!) But hey, you look good on that cover. Very far from a celebrity though, wehehehe...just kiddin'..Peace!

Anyway, I kinda envy you on that, so I created one for myself. Here check it out:

So, what do you think? Does my pic fit on that Seventeen mag? With a little emphasis on that nice dimple, I'm sure anyone will think that I still look like I'm seventeen. (Yeah ryt, dream on Phoebe!)

How about my little girl? Hmmm, let us see if she has a promising career as a cover girl.

She looks so cute, right? And look at those eyes and that adorable smile. Oh, I'm so proud of my baby, and mind you, she's not camera shy at all.

So, want to create your own fake magazine cover? Click here.

Online Casino Games

2008-02-13T21:00:00.000-08:00

Since I'm back home, I have more time now to surf the net. And so last night, I went back to my routine - checking the web for sites which I find interesting like this online casino site. Yup, if you are into internet casino gambling online, this site can offer you with various casino games. Check out this easy-to-navigate website and enjoy playing in a virtual casino.

Doing Taxes The Easy Way

2008-02-12T20:52:00.000-08:00

Hey, I'm back home and it feels good to see my little Gaby again. But in as much as I want to spend more time with her, I just can't yet because here I am working again. Anyhow, I'll just make it up to her during the weekend or when I get back home later this afternoon.

So, what's new for me now that I'm back here in my place? Well, I guess, I have to start doing the important things that I neglected to do almost two weeks ago. One of which is updating my tax exemption status. You see, I realized just this January that my tax exemption status is not updated, which means all this time I paid more taxes than what I was supposed to. So, now that I'm here I need to look into this and put it in my priority "to-do" list as a taxpayer.

Well, I know for a fact that a lot of taxpayers out there want to avoid mistakes on their tax returns. To ensure this, they rely on a tax preparation software like Turbo Tax.

So, why fret over incorrect or overlooked deductions if you can do your taxes the easy way through Turbo Tax? Now, you can even avail of a TurboTax promotion code to enjoy state discount.

But wait, there's more! With TurboTax promo code, you can also get a free edition of Turbo Tax which you can use when you file your federal taxes. Expiration of this code will be on the 16th of April 2008 so no need to worry.

Turbo Tax is indeed a great help for taxpayers. Now, let me go back to updating my tax exemption status.

I Miss My Little Girl

2008-02-11T15:55:00.000-08:00

When I woke up this morning, I was full of energy and thought that this would be a great day in spite the fact that I'm still away from my Baby Gab. But when I logged in this morning and started seeing her pictures in my blog, I suddenly felt this heavy feeling and just wanted to burst in tears. I tried to control my emotions though since there are a few people here who'd see me and would wonder why I'm crying.

For other moms out there, I'm sure they would understand what I'm feeling now. It's been over a week since I left my little girl, yet it already feels like months. I miss my baby so much, really I do. I'm just not used to sleeping without her, or waking up in the morning not feeling her small body beside me. I miss her, damn I miss her. I don't want to cry here, it's too embarrassing, but damn I really miss her.

For the past days, I kept myself busy and occupied so I won't think about her too much. But you see, as a mom, anyone can't blame me if I'm feeling a little emotional whenever I remember my kiddo or see other babies with their moms and dads at the mall. I'm sure, other moms or even dads feel the same way when they're away from their kids.

So I'm thinking, if I feel so homesick now that I've been away for more than a week, what more if I pursue my plan of applying for work abroad? Oh, just the thought of it, makes me all the more emotional. Last year, I was too determined to apply for a job abroad this 2008. But now, I'm having second thoughts. What do you think, should I leave or should I stay? Do you think it would be worth it if I leave my little girl behind just to give her a brighter future? Or would it rather be an advantage if I'd settle with what I have now and see her grow at the same time?

Questions, questions, and still more questions. I need answers, all the answers! But for now, I'll have to wait for the day to be over, so I can go back home tomorrow and see my little girl.

Exciting Online Casino Site

2008-02-10T19:34:00.001-08:00

Okay, so I'm still away from home, which means I need to find ways to keep myself busy and occupied so I won't miss my baby too much. I'm done with shopping yesterday, so the only thing I can do now is to surf the net just to get myself occupied. I'm here at the nearest cafe, checking my emails and browsing the net at the same time for something interesting. Then, I came across this online casino site. It has a cool design, and well with the bonus they're giving, I'm sure a lot of players who are into gambling casino online will be interested.

So, if you are into playing in online gambling casino, 32vegas.com is a nice and fun place for you. You can check it out anytime of the day or night, right even at the comfort of your home. You see, you don't have to be in a real casino just to have fun and win. Here at 32vegas.com, you can sit back, relax, and play casino right at your fingertips.

Great Online Casino Guide

2008-02-08T22:54:00.000-08:00

Five days down, one more to go. Whew, this week is really so stressful, with all those meetings and all. I wish, I can take a break after this. But I don't think that would be possible since I will be busy with the copy editing training next week.

So, what do you think should I do for fun? Maybe, I can just surf the web and see if I can find a fun way to relieve stress. Hmmm...Ideas, anyone? How about playing in an online casino?

Before, I was not so familiar with this one. But since I have a friend who is very much into playing in real casino, I'm beginning to like it as well.

There are actually lots of online casinos these days, so there's plenty to choose from. But to find the best one, Onlinecasinolinks.com should be the site to trust.

Onlinecasinolinks.com provides detailed reviews of around 100 online casinos, guide for beginners, and tips about online gambling. With these useful information on hand, even the novice player can start playing online casino with so much ease and convenience. So, why not check this site?

Need Cash Now?

2008-02-07T19:01:00.000-08:00

I received a good news this morning. According to the accounting department, our cash conversion for our leave credits will be available this afternoon. This is really a good news since I'm already running out of cash and payday is still a week away.

Being a single working mom really needs tough budgeting of finances. From my baby's needs up to my day-to-day expenses, I have to make sure that my budget will fit until the next payday. However, there are some unexpected situations on which I have to spend more than what I just intended to. I am sure a lot of single working moms experience the same thing. Good thing, Perfect Cash Advance can provide us with a solution.

Perfect Cash Advance is a site where anyone can apply for payday advance loan in just a matter of minutes. With their easy-to-use online application form, we can now find a cash advance lender which can provide us with the immediate cash that we need. The process is so simple; all we have to do is to complete the online form, wait for the loan approval, and voila, the funds will be available soon! Very simple, right?

So, for your payday loans and cash advance needs, just rely on Perfect Cash Advance!

New Year, New Home! Hopefully...

2008-02-07T18:36:00.000-08:00

One of my plans this year is to either buy a house or have my own house built. I've been renting my place for a year now and whenever I pay my monthly rent, I can't help but think that it would be better if I apply for a loan financing so that I can start having my own house.

This idea of buying a home or having my house built has been playing on my mind for a couple of months now. Unfortunately, I could not really give it a serious thought since there are lots of other things to consider like my finances. I am pretty sure that there are other would-be home buyers out there who are in the same boat as mine. But in times like this, Mortgage Finders Network can be of big help.

Mortgage Finders Network is an online resource of useful information dealing with mortgages, home refinancing, and home equity loans. If you want to buy a home or have one built like what I have in mind, this site can help you find the best type of loan to consider. From questions dealing with the amount of loan payment up to the interests, this site can provide you with the answers.

So, why stress yourself out if you can find the right loan the easy way? Visit Mortgage Finders Network now!

Credit Cards to the Rescue

2008-02-06T23:21:00.000-08:00

I've been away from home for 5days now, and I would admit that I'm running out of cash. I'm thinking of buying some stuff for my baby when I get home, but how can I do so if I don't have enough cash here. If only I have a credit card with me here, this problem is solved right away.

Before, I didn't give getting a credit card much consideration. But when my baby came last November, all the more that I needed one since there are times that I run out of cash yet I have to buy infant formula and diapers for her. You see, being a single parent is not easy. I have to make sure that my finances are well-budgeted so that I can provide my baby with all the things that she needs.

I am sure, other single parents out there share the same problem with me. And in situations like this, credit cards can really come to the rescue. But since there are lots of credit card offers nowadays, choosing the right credit card can be a tough one.

Good thing, Your Credit Network is here to help those who are trying to find a credit card. This site features credit card reviews and other credit card information to serve as guide for those searching for the best credit card offer. With their reviews, including their credit card blog, finding the right credit card is now way much easier. So, why not check this one out?

Great Find! Best Buy!

2008-02-02T14:45:00.000-08:00

I've been suffering from eye strain the past days. Since I work too long in front of the computer, at the end of the day, I can feel my eyeballs as if they are ready to pop out. I was thinking, perhaps I needed new eyeglasses.

A year ago, I had an eye consultation because I was suffering the same eye strain that I am feeling now. I, then, found out that I already need to have my eyeglasses. I had one, but only wore it for just a month or two, while in fact, it has to be worn everyday. So, now I'm suffering the consequences.

Good thing, there is now a quick solution to my problem. I found this Great Discovery: Zenni Optical, a reliable online source of stylish and affordale eyeglasses.

Why buy expensive ones if I can have one of these Zenni Optical $8 Rx Glasses. Yup, in just $8, anyone can now have a new eyeglasses without the fuss.

This Best Thing Found: Zenni Optical is really a good news to all those looking for quality, stylish, and affordable eyeglasses including myself. Thanks Zenni Optical!

I Need A Break!

2008-02-01T18:13:00.000-08:00

Aarrgghh, I feel so stressed out! I badly need a break. How I wish I can easily escape from all my responsibilities and book a flight right at this very minute.

Just a few days ago, my baby's dad and I were talking about traveling to various destinations when he comes home next year. This would be a perfect time for us to relax and also to talk about our future plans for our almost 3-month old baby girl. We do not have concrete travel destinations in mind, but we were considering Spain as an option.

Spain is a home to many beautiful towns and cities like Sitges, Marbella, Torremolinos, and Benidorm. Spending a nice vacation to any of these will sure be a pleasurable one. But to make the experience truly memorable, everything should be planned accordingly including the hotel accommodations.

So, if you are also thinking of spending a great time with your family, friends, or partner in Spain like me, then let Cheaperthanhotels help you find amazing travel deals. Whether you are in search of Costa Del Sol Torremolinos Hotels, Costa Del Sol Marbella Hotels, Benidorm Hotels, or Sitges Barcelona Hotels, this site can sure provide you with the best travel deal that matches your taste and budget.

Cheaperthanhotels is indeed a great site to look for Spain travel deals. When we make our plans next year, we can sure rely on this website.

Talking About Hair Loss

2008-01-30T17:36:00.000-08:00

When I looked at the mirror a while ago, I noticed that my hair already needs a hair treatment of some sort. I neglected this important part of my body when I got pregnant. So, now that I already gave birth, it's time to have a hair makeover.

I've seen new hair styles in the television lately, and I'm thinking to copy one of those. I love styling my hair that is why I take really care of it. I make sure that I only lose very few strands every time I shampoo or comb it because perhaps if I'm losing more than the usual, I'll freak out.

Many women out there experience hair loss and I do understand how frustrating it could be. Good thing, there are now lots of hair loss products in the market. But since the options are many, only the right product should be used to ensure good results.

How to find the right hair loss product to use? Why not check out various hair loss product reviews like this Provillus review? Provillus is a known name when it comes to hair loss treatment. To know if this is the right product for you, check this hair loss product guide to see how it was rated by people who have already used it.

Hair care is really very important. So, if you notice that you’re losing more strands than usual, better take some action. Now, let me get back to planning how I’ll go with my hair makeover.

Help on Stretch Marks!

2008-01-30T05:55:00.000-08:00

Whenever I see my stretch marks, I feel so annoyed. Our out-of-town trip is just a month away, and I don’t think I would ever have the guts to wear 2-piece with these unsightly marks on my thighs. Help! What am I going to do with these? My friend Jo gave me this lotion to at least conceal the marks, but still, they show. So, what now?

I just gave birth three months ago, so it is just natural for a woman like me who has just been through pregnancy to have these stretch marks. I know, I’m not the only one who is dealing with this concern. There are actually lots of women out there who are in need of stretch mark cream that will work for them.

Now, how to find the right stretch mark treatment? The answer is simple. Read reviews of various treatments to prevent stretch marks. Where to find these reviews? It’s right here at Diva’s Skin Care Blog.

Diva’s Skin Care Blog is an online source of useful information on stretch marks prevention and treatment. They provide reviews of various stretch mark treatments such as the revitol stretch mark cream. And when it comes to other skin care needs like skin care products and therapies, you can also rely on them for helpful information.

I, myself, have really learned a lot from reading Diva’s Skin Care Blog. So, if you also want to know more about stretch mark prevention or treatment, check this one out!

Medical Career Training

2008-01-29T15:00:00.000-08:00

Two weeks ago, my friend Jane gave me a call to ask me if I wanted to join her in studying nursing. I was a bit surprised because she knows very well that I have a job right now, plus an almost 3-month old baby to take care of. I was thinking how I could ever accommodate such and much more concentrate in the program if I have lots of things to tender.

I never really gave the idea of being in the medical field so much thought until another friend of mine, Divine, told me that she is interested in enrolling in said medical program as well. Now, this really got me thinking.

I am sure, lots of people out there are also thinking of being in the medical field. Since there is now an increasing demand for health professionals, the medical career field becomes one of the sought after fields today. Some would like to be in nursing schools, while others would want to enroll in ultrasound tech school. So, if you want to be on your way of becoming a health care professional, then Medical-Career-Training.com is the place to start.

Medical-Career-Training.com is an online source of useful information about Medical Training programs. If you visit this site, you will see many medical career options and other degrees and courses provided by leading institutions. So, whether you want to be a nurse, x-ray technician, or ultrasound tech, you can count on this site for the information you need.

Check out Medical-Career-Training.com to find the right medical schools like nursing schools and ultrasound technician school for you. Now, let me get back to that idea of being a nurse someday. What do you think, should I or should I not?

I Want to Play Online Billiard

2008-01-29T05:32:00.000-08:00

I had a hard day at work, and all I could think of now is to just relax and unwind. But I still have work tomorrow and staying up late will just make things worse. Then, the thought of playing online game entered my mind. Maybe this will do the trick for now.

I searched for sites which can offer me with an online game which is fun to play. I love playing billiards, so I said to myself, why not play online billiards instead.

When it comes to online billiards and online snooker, Billiard Magic is the name to trust. It is an online billiard room where anyone can play snooker, pool, and of course billiard. The site is very user-friendly; anyone can easily access the download page to download its billiard software. Plus, information on how to get started is included in its content so that even the novice player can enjoy playing billiards online.

For more information on billiard tournaments, check out Biliard Magic. And if you want to know more and have fun playing billiards online, just visit this site.

Good News for Bloggers! Bad News for Me! Grrrr...

2008-01-28T20:34:00.000-08:00

While having our lunch break, my colleague Precy mentioned that there are now other Philippine bank accounts that can be used for withdrawing funds in Paypal account. I was so pissed off upon hearing this because I just got my eon card I guess two weeks ago. Talking about wasting an amount of 350php for the charge and 100Php for initial deposit amount...

Now, what are these Philippine bank accounts? You can see it here.

And if you have other questions, just click here for more.

This is really a good news for bloggers out there who are monitizing their blogs. Too bad for me, I was too anxious to get my eon card so I ended up 450Php short in my last week's budget.

Cash Advance Loans Are The Answers

2008-01-28T13:25:00.000-08:00

Two days more to go and its payday time again. Yipee! This is just what I needed to pay the monthly house rent and other bills. You see, every payday, I make sure that I budget my money well and pay all my financial obligations before making other expenses. However, sometimes I could not avoid some circumstances which require me to go beyond my budget. In other words, I get short of cash. And I'm sure, I'm not the only who experiences this kind of situation.

For people who are in need of immediate cash and are caught between paychecks, cash advance loans are the solutions. Where to get one? Check Personal Cash Advance, an online source that provides payday loans and cash advance for those who need cash to cover unexpected expenses like car repair, home repair, and medications.

Why choose Personal Cash Advance? Because they provide a quick and easy processing of applications for payday loan. Once your application is approved, you will just have to wait for the payday loan to be deposited to your savings or checking account. And with regards to payment, you need not to worry because flexible payment schemes are being offered.

Personal Cash Advance is indeed a reliable way to secure that immediate cash without the need to wait too long and exert too much effort. And since they are 100% online, you can access them even right at the comfort of your home. Talking about convenience, right?